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[Jude]

Some more "evidence" for you Relationship Themed brains to stew over. I was talking with her friends today during our lunch brake. She didn't really stare at me for long durations of time, but the little glances that she did give me were accompanied with a hint of a grin.

OK maybe I forgot hint number 1

DON'T KEEP COLLECTING EVIDENCE AND MULLING OVER IT

It accomplishes jack shit. It makes you start second guessing yourself. Don't do it. Just go for it.

Also, that's the stuff that girls do. Maybe it comes natural to you to do it (it does to me) but DON'T DO IT. All it's going to do is make you insecure and self-doubting and act more like a girl, waiting for the other person to take the initiative. That's not what girls want. If they did they would date other girls.

I, unfortunately, did not have the guts to talk to her privately though

Well you need to get them or you're never gonna get with her, or any girl so start getting some guts

[Cthulhu]

I had a girl admit she liked me once.  She did it in an email.

I never responded, and we never spoke of it again.

Did I do the wrong thing?  Maybe, but she made some remarks with some innuendo to me (Innuendic remarks?  Is innuendic a word?), and they made me uncomfortable.

[cowofdoom78963]

Whatever you decide to do, just remember to wear your Aphrodite armpad.

[Jude]

I had a girl admit she liked me once.  She did it in an email.

I never responded, and we never spoke of it again.

Did I do the wrong thing?  Maybe, but she made some remarks with some innuendo to me (Innuendic remarks?  Is innuendic a word?), and they made me uncomfortable.

Well if you liked her then you did the wrong thing and if you didn't like her you didn't

emailing that to someone is pretty dumb in most cases, although once I left a note for a girl saying I liked her, but that was because I left town about a week after she came back to town and I knew I was never actually going to have a chance to pursue it so I figured what the heck, and I didn't have a chance to tell her in person

but if you're actually planning to pursue it then never tell somebody that straight up. I have no idea why, but it's a turn off. You have to show them.

[Cthulhu]

I did not, but I kind of felt like I should've at least said something.

[cowofdoom78963]

It was probably spam. You know all the stuff that the internet shits out...

[Tack]

Seriously dude, that's not cool. If a chick tells you her feelings, you should at least Register it. Even sending back an email of "oh... ok. huh. Never would have figured that."

Would have been far better than not replying.

And if a chick is being innuendouos to you, you're in luck. The whole "corruption" process is long and gets boring at some points.

Back to Robocherub's problems:

You're fifteen. No matter what course of action you decide on, you aren't going to follow through with it. The most probable thing that you'll do is just sit and dither, and blush like a retard when she says nice stuff, while she giggles like an idiot when vice-versa. Here's the question I put to you.
If you don't ask her out, will you regret it?
If you can answer "yes" to that, without a whisper of a doubt, then you already know exactly what you should do.

[Footkerchief]

And if a chick is being innuendouos to you, you're in luck.

Totally depends.  Sometimes it's just gross.

[Dakk]

And if a chick is being innuendouos to you, you're in luck.

Totally depends.  Sometimes it's just gross.

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So yea.

[Jude]

Or if she's hot but a tramp

[Siquo]

Or if she's hot but a tramp

I take offense at that. Tramps and sluts make the world a better place, a lot better than the prudes and 'virtuous' who make men suffer and give back nothing.

The world needs more sluts.

[Cthulhu]

And anyway, I totally did figure.  I knew she did, but...

No.  Definitely not ever.

[Maggarg - Eater of chicke]

Some more "evidence" for you Relationship Themed brains to stew over. I was talking with her friends today during our lunch brake. She didn't really stare at me for long durations of time, but the little glances that she did give me were accompanied with a hint of a grin. I, unfortunately, did not have the guts to talk to her privately though

Do not apply the methods used for effective scientific analysis to relationships. Also ask her out. She won't eat you unless she's some kind of secret monster.

[Hoborobo234]

Yep, I think I have totally screwed it. Dunno what I did or said, but activity has stopped as far as I know. Friendlyness continues however. I am not letting this thread go to waste. I WILL ASK HER OUT




Well if not now, I will certainly ask her to the ball in may

[Dakk]

Congratz, it took you 15 pages in a online forum's thread of comments to get you to ask her. Geez, just follow your instincts, though my advice doesn't really count for known reasons.