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[Tack]

I just glance in here once in a while and say nothing because I can't usually think of anything very insightful to say, and know it will be awkward to offer anything less... Eventually leading to most thread visits being when I only have a sad of my own to report.  Which means that if I assume everyone else is approaching it the same way I do, I'm only casting my sorrows into an empty void of neglection.

The important part is that the sorrows are being cast out.

Sometimes I think that the best psychologist is a cardboard cut-out of one. As long as you're mentioning the shit going on, somewhere, to anyone, it's somehow less of a burden.

Especially when it's something regarding tyranical work problems or something. I don't need consolation, I just need someone to know.
But because of confidentiality laws, it has to be someone who doesn't know who knows.
In those cases, the pit of neglect suits me just fine.

[TheBiggerFish]

TMS: I know the feel.  I'm sorry.  *hugs*

[hops]

I'm going to be honest here, I just post so that people can reassure me that they think I'm cool. But not enough people say that because I'm not actually cool.

Wasn't cinder asexual tho.

Dude I'm like, omnisexual. I'd fuck an intelligent eldritch horror. When was I asexual. :v

I'm losing track of who's who. You're MtF transgender aren't you?

If so, sounds about right for someone biologically male and mid-late teens. That fukken testosterone making you want to fuck everything that moves and some things that don't.

Not as much MtF as a cute and feminine man. :v
At least, that's the goal. Some people don't think I'm girl enough.

Also my sexual urges had pretty much lowered a lot. But I still like flirting and being lewd because the other alternative is acting innocent, and I'm definitely not that.

[Emma]

I'm going to be honest here, I just post so that people can reassure me that they think I'm cool. But not enough people say that because I'm not actually cool.

Nah, you're pretty cool.

[TheBiggerFish]

I'm going to be honest here, I just post so that people can reassure me that they think I'm cool. But not enough people say that because I'm not actually cool.

Nah, you're pretty cool.

You're cool.

Also, Cinder, there's this third option between relentless flirting and complete innocence, that's simply not talking about lewdity unless it comes up?  shrug  Just a thought.  :v

[Tiruin]

I'm going to be honest here, I just post so that people can reassure me that they think I'm cool. But not enough people say that because I'm not actually cool.

Nah, you're pretty cool.

You could do some self-checking with all these instead of limiting your reasoning to certain actions and effects of those actions alone. Others can give a succinct description of you just as much as you can.
Listening to others and taking in their ideas along with your own also helps your thinking and perception.

Also, Cinder, there's this third option between relentless flirting and complete innocence, that's simply not talking about lewdity unless it comes up?

This too.

[Orange Wizard]

Also, Cinder, there's this third option between relentless flirting and complete innocence, that's simply not talking about lewdity unless it comes up?  shrug  Just a thought.  :v

That's no fun at all

[Yoink]

*unhugs everyone*

*hugs self*

[hops]

I'm going to be honest here, I just post so that people can reassure me that they think I'm cool. But not enough people say that because I'm not actually cool.

Nah, you're pretty cool.

You're cool.

Also, Cinder, there's this third option between relentless flirting and complete innocence, that's simply not talking about lewdity unless it comes up?  shrug  Just a thought.  :v

The other attractive alternative.

[TheBiggerFish]

I'm going to be honest here, I just post so that people can reassure me that they think I'm cool. But not enough people say that because I'm not actually cool.

Nah, you're pretty cool.

You're cool.

Also, Cinder, there's this third option between relentless flirting and complete innocence, that's simply not talking about lewdity unless it comes up?  shrug  Just a thought.  :v

The other attractive alternative.

Not being a relentless flirt isn't a put-off.  Just be you.  You're nice.  You don't need to be making yourself different from your you just because some hypothetical somebody might not like it.  If you can't be you with whoever, then stop lying to them.

[BlackHeartKabal]

I'm going to be honest here, I just post so that people can reassure me that they think I'm cool. But not enough people say that because I'm not actually cool.

Nah, you're pretty cool.

You're cool.

Also, Cinder, there's this third option between relentless flirting and complete innocence, that's simply not talking about lewdity unless it comes up?  shrug  Just a thought.  :v

The other attractive alternative.

Not being a relentless flirt isn't a put-off.  Just be you.  You're nice.  You don't need to be making yourself different from your you just because some hypothetical somebody might not like it.  If you can't be you with whoever, then stop lying to them.

I wish I could make a unique response but I think that TBF has said enough...

[TheBiggerFish]

Indeed.  Being a tryhard is unattractive.

[Orange Wizard]

Never try, never fail

[TheBiggerFish]

At the same time if you don't try you'll never succeed either...

[Orange Wizard]

Failure is worse than succeeding, this way we can avoid both