I simply don't know what to think of my current situation, but it's not a happy one:
It feels like things with Deli Girl have rapidly gone downhill for reasons outside of my control, and I'm not sure if I should stick around to see how things work out, or if it would be wise to jump ship before any undue grief befalls me. My feelings on the matter are whiplashing back and forth.
Our first and second dates went really well! I don't think they could've gone better.
Our third date was going to dinner together, and this is where things started going awry. We set a time to meet, but she was at her mother's place, a location I didn't know. I ask her via text where it was before heading out to see her, and she doesn't answer me back. It's a solid forty minutes after our agreed upon time before she finally calls me, saying she forgot and was hanging out with some friends. Then she says she just wants to call her friend back before calling me back. I go to chill out at my uncle's place during, and it's approximately an hour and twenty minutes for a combined total of two hours before she calls me back and informs me where she is and that she's ready.
We go out to eat, and we have a nice date I think, I pay the whole tab without even thinking about it, and right after that she doesn't really want to do anything else but go back to her friends'. Still, we drive around and talk for a bit, going around some scenic routes. I'm a little bit of a worse driver than I usually am, but not dangerously bad. I drop her off back at her Mom's house. That was Saturday.
Then Monday, she texts me in the afternoon asking me how I'm doing, and we both have the day off so I ask if we could hang out. She thinks that's a cool idea, and we set up a time, but right before I set out to leave she texts me back along the lines "Hold on, I'm going to the store real fast. I'll tell you when I'm back home.". So I wait a bit, and by a bit I mean another solid two hours, before I text her again and only then she texts me back saying she has to go to her Mom's and she'll call me later, with no other explanation. I'm visibly upset by this, just because I got forgotten about again and now I'm brushed off when I thought we were making plans. It would only be tomorrow when I straight ask her what happened does she explain that she had to suddenly go babysit for her sister, which I would have understood had she told me instead of leaving me to fume for a day, not knowing what was up.
Now Wednesday, today, when she texts me out of the blue asking for a BIG favor. I ask what it is. She wants to borrow 150 dollars to help buy a car from some guy. I'm simply not sure what is up. I want to help, but I simply can't sanely loan her that money, we've only been dating for almost four weeks now, and she's given me a few doubts in my head at that. I text her back saying I want to talk with her when I get out of work, and we'll talk about it. I get out of work, granted it's a little late, 11:30pm, but no reply from either the text or the call... What the hell is up with this girl?
I'm not sure what to do or what to think about her and what's happening. Things started off so awesomely amazingly good, it's just these last few days that are so damn bizarre and off-putting, and her communication with me has gotten so dodgy and inconsistent, and so quickly at that. I'm currently piecing together what my next course of action should be.
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