Rationalist, Empiricist, whatever. Politely inform him of the train ONCE, if I feel like it, prove it if possible. If not able to prove then just inform. If he tells you to fuck off, then fuck off. From there its his choice to get off the tracks or not. I will watch the train obliterate him from a good safe distance and take a picture. Yes, I really would. I don't care if they don't give a damn about my not wanting to be saved. So far, their "help" has just hurt, immensely. I think such "help" should be reciprocated as the hurt it is. I don't know how many bad things it would take for them to get the message that "saving" me is bad for them, but I know how many I'd like to use.
Alrighty. Not everyone has conditional empathy, though. Do understand that.
O, I'm not trying to seriously convince them of anything; that's impossible. It's like arguing with trolls. The only way to win that game is to not play it or not play it seriously. I don't care what they think and it is of no consequence to me. Their opinions mean nothing to me and I wouldn't bother with the effort to change them. They have made up their mind and nothing I say, no matter what it is, could ever change that irrationality. I'm not going to play a game where the dice are rigged on their assumptions.
Ah, but the thing is they're not irrational (well maybe but not required to be). Trolls they are not either, unless they're insulting you satirically. To be irrational means you have to embrace a non-sequitur, not just a premise you don't agree with. If their premises and conclusions line up, they're acting 100% logically.
Why do you think atheists/etc quote the bible when arguing with these people? It's fighting them from their own premises, to
point out the non-sequiturs. This is the only way to convince anyone of anything; the alternative is circular arguments, shouting to the wind. This plagues religious and political debates and is the biggest reason they rarely go anywhere. Arguing from different premises is fine if you're trying to convince a third party, be it a jury, judge, the choir, constituents, etc, because you're arguing to the
third party's premises, not your "opponent's." In any real debate between two parties, that doesn't work.
I only bring this up since you seem to be trying to make logical arguments against these people when posting. That's not really necessary when preaching to the choir. Nor does it really work if we look at your arguments from the opposition's perspective. If ya wanna rant, just rant
Have you ever been told you're an abomination? Have you ever had every problem on earth blamed on you and those like you since you were a child though you gave no offense? Have you ever been a scapegoat for all of society and had to live a lie though you have harmed no one. Irrationality like this has made my life a living hell and I don't care anymore what anyone believes. This is especially true given that they hate me and those like me, for the stupidest of reasons.
I spent a good portion of my life telling myself this. Was I being irrational? Not really. Self destructive, certainly, but not irrational. To fix it, I just changed my premises; figured out why, deep down, they weren't what I believed. No amount of telling me "you're being stupid" would've fixed it. To change my opinion, I had to reach the new conclusion logically. Any attacking or forcing me to "change" would've only strengthened my resolve.
I will lie to them if I must; I will pretend to respect their views if I must. You can't respect someone's beliefs that unconditionally, unjustly condemns you for no reason.
No one has ever said you need to respect other's views. Nor them acting on them. Just their right to
have them. And if you ever want to fight their views
effectively, you'll have to understand them. Realize why they don't make sense, from the stated premises. Only them will you ever be able to convince any second party (instead of a third party) in an argument.
You say you don't care about changing people's opinions. Well then, how will your abuse ever end? You can't change the world but you can certainly change the immediate world around you. "Save" them in your own way (assuming that's possible; I don't know the people you know). I did suggest fighting tooth and nail in my previous reply, but only because that's an easier, short term solution. You wanna end your own personal abuse, you run away or force your abusers to leave you alone. You wanna end this abuse permanently, you're going to have to actually convince someone of something. Yelling at them, telling them they're evil, works
exactly as well as them telling you you're evil, and abomination, etc.