My dad... Hes atheist, but hes racist and homophobic, to the max.
He also bullies me for my diagnosis, my music tastes and basically everything i do, because i dont play soccer and/or listen to pop music. [...snip...] I hate him too, because he is forcing thos madculinity down my throat.
Does your dad actually thinks that pop music is masculine?
It would be understandable if you were forced to listen to rock music or heavy metal, but pop music?
Your dad should be introduced to Justin Bieber's songs.
Not the boyband kinda rock, im talking about reggae, generic pop rock.
My mom on the other hand, has actually tried forcing me to accept JB as sophisticated music.
Oh and to like gospel and to fear metal or some shit.
Before she turned completely insane, she accepted that i like metal, that im growing my hair long, etc. Now she expects me to become a big musician, and she even tried making me sell my Ibanez when i told her its just a hobby.
Parents tend to have an instinctual desire to protect and care for their children.
Occasionally, they don't.
If you tell them and they seem... to not have that instinctual desire, go somewhere. Does Denmark have places for minors from abusive homes? You might keep your eye our for one if your parents know but don't take it very well. I guess after you're out of the house it won't matter as much, but just in case.
Im almost a legal adult. Given my municipality(county)'s "SAVE ALL THE MONEY, BUILD PRETTY OFFICES"(like the average DF noble) mindset, they wouldnt place me in one. Had i got out age 14, i would have had one.
As it is now, i would be put on the street.