I would like to note that i literally dont even know if asking somebody out is even something that is done in belgium
just asking somebody out out of the blue still seems like a bad idea, to be honest :x
then again, its not like i know what else i would do. messaging them on facebook is tempting but... eh. the same reason comes to mind again, that being i only talked to her once and not wanting to seem weird.
It never ceases to amaze me that young dudes don't seem to realize that girls their age are *le gasp* regular people just like them. Some girls want to be asked out. Some don't. Some will be interested in you. Some won't. Some want to play video games. Some want to play head games. Just. Talk. To. Her. Like. Any. Other. Person. * shakes the hell out of miauw*
i guess i know this on an intellectual level somewhere, but emotionally... not really
eh, i tried to write up some sort of justification but i guess there isn't really one.
talking to them like any other person is definitely what i try, and i seem to have succeeded at this last time. a bit too much, even >.>
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this sort of reminds me of a thing, that being that seeing my crush talk to another dude just makes me feel really shitty and it's one of those things where i feel shitty for feeling shitty about it too. i guess it's jealousy. that's basically the definition of jealousy, isn't it?