Tack, you should get to use words with less negative impact. Instead of saying people are lovestruck idiots or they are made idiots because they can't comprehend what they're feeling at the moment may go in the wrong way at times
Just saying. The positive alternative is great.Facekillz, you should get to realize on why you're truly with her and understand what emotions are going on--are you friends with her because you hope she'll follow your choice? Did you consider her choice? Did you both talk about it openly? Is being friends with her only, a
bad thing for some reason?
...Meaning: Did you talk to her about all this instead of wondering it by yourself?
Also how in the bloody world is
"Just be an asshole to her, works every time."
even a valid or reasonable idea!?
That
anyone would mention?!
Another query that could be said is--if you would also reciprocate what you idealize. Like being a great person for them just as they're great for you--in the least, understand mutuality before heading out to find someone matching your significant other idea.
On that petty part--don't slink into possessiveness. It won't help if you won't speak to them and look at it as a 'lost cause'.
Caroline: That's borderline child abuse. The first part.
Though that's mostly be reacting to the idea of physical threat in order to 'fix' something.
Emotional attack or verbal insults via threats or comparison or demeaning attitude goes along the idea of abuse.
Your mother should know what she's doing. Retold. Informed.
It seems like
Undoing.
(link used as a reference to describe what is most probably describing the words posted out of context and may not exactly encompass the event in reality due to perceptions and such. It is not to be used as a basis to judge.)
Whatever is such--there's something wrong in the approach of perceived problems
Check yourself also if there's anything on your side--like anger--which may sway the situation or reaction in anyway.
@Caroline (I swore you were a girl because username)
She is.
Trans. \o/