Well unless you're actually lacking and are found wanting...change isn't at all a bad idea there
Back to being serious, however, what do they ask anyway? << Self-reflection query there, isn't there a way to make it sound logical to them?
What they ask for is for me to be "honest" with them. But that alone makes no sense.
The reason the auguement started is because earlier that day, I saw my therapist. They waited until the very end of the day to ask me what was discussed, which by then most of the details were fuzzy.
I explained what I could remember, which honestly was much beside the discussion on whether or not I may have a form of tourettes.
They didn't like that, and said that I must have talked about more than that at the appointment.
I said that yeah, there was, but I don't really remember it clearly, and they refused to believe me, and said that I'm hiding things from them.
I tried to explain that it's not my fault I have shitty memory, and that the therapist said that memory problems are common when you have a stressful childhood.
So they said "why didn't you bring that up earlier? Clearly you do remember more and you're lying"
So I explained that the only reason I remembered that was because I was reminded of it from the arguement, but they wouldn't believe me, and the whole thing grew from that.
So I don't know how the hell I "fix" that.