I never said I didn't like it, it's ok. But it is using the tropes i described. The entire conversation was in response to "what fanservice? There's no fanservice!" and just pointing out, yes, yes there is. I never said anything about liking or not liking the show, or liking/not-liking fanservice but fans do need to be upfront about the material that's in shows we recommend to other people. If there are naked boobs or butts in a show, it doesn't matter whether we can say it's "for realz" sexualization or "just a parody", new viewers are just going to notice boobs and butts.
btw, when people say they don't like harem comedies, it's not the romance-related subplots that they're concerned with. it's the style of show: one guy and his 17+ cute girly friends, comedic antics, ecchi. Whether or not there are romance-related subplots isn't really the criteria such people are talking about. "but there isn't romance in this one, so it's not a harem" misses the point.
"harem" in a loose sense is often used to describe such shows because it does succinctly describe what you're going to get: one guy surrounded by X number of cute girls. e.g. Haruhi, Kanon, Clannad, Stein's;Gate, Konosuba and 100's of other "not a harem" shows which have the exact same setup. (another common trope in all these and romcom harems is the "sidekick" male, who has less luck/connection with the girls than the hero does. This way the viewer can self-insert with the loser hero but feel good that there's someone else who's a bigger loser
).
The structure of "1 guy + # girls" is common enough that it's a trope on par with e.g. "mecha" for describing a type of show. Not all "mecha" shows are classic types like Gundam and Macross, but that doesn't make them "not a mecha show"
Sure, you can say "not a harem" for all those, but the specific "1 guy + # girls" setup is near-ubiqutous in anime/manga/LNs/VNs. It's so pervasive that you'd have to be in complete denial to pretend it's not a thing. It's definitely something you
notice as a repeated trope.
If not "harem" then what succinct descriptive term would you use to describe the class of shows that invariably boil down to one guy and his gaggle of girls?
e.g. you could have a show with one guy and 6 girls in a school club and they're all romantically interested in him, and have daily antics, or a show with one guy and 6 girls in a school club and they're
not romantically interested in him, and have daily antics. The similarities between such shows
vastly outweigh the differences, it would be ridiculous to say they were
different genres merely because of the lack of romance subplots. Both are harem comedies, they just emphasize slightly different aspects of the genre. Personally, I use the breakdown "harem comedy" and "harem romcom" to distinguish the two very similar styles of show.
btw the genre itself is built on parody. it's a parodic genre. Parodying older moe/harem/romcom/anime is therefore an expected thing, so parody isn't a thing that separates one show from another in this genre.