Now for an unrelated note: does it bug anyone else how much anime breaks the rule of "show, don't tell"?
I believe that the Japanese, and potentially Eastern Culture in general, does not follow the "show, don't tell" philosophy. I grew up watching anime and reading manga and use the sort of introspective thoughts and explanations you see in those mediums in my writing occasionally, and I've been criticized for it. Personally I see nothing wrong with telling anything as long as you don't botch the actual story you're trying to write. I feel like "show, don't tell" is just a philosophy that was developed because people sucked at telling and it was easier to pull off showing, rather than some universal golden truth.
Less that and more because crappy writers are prone to doing things like writing "So'n'so is a terrible evil and must be stopped!" to explain why the protagonists are fighting so'n'so, which leaves us with basically nothing but the author's word that so'n'so is evil, and a near-total lack of investment. We don't know them from Adam, and we have no reason to care. If you write scenes in which so'n'so does evil things, the audience has reason to believe that so'n'so
is evil. Any form of "telling" us about so'n'so's evil that's even mildly effective as a device is probably another way of showing (characters recounting so'n'so's past misdeeds, so'n'so having a conversation that reveals their twisted, evil ways of thinking, etc.)
In other words, the "telling" referred to in that concept is when someone writes that something is so without any context, background, or in-universe proof. In a sense it's like the old morality play habit of naming characters after what they represent, e.g. a character with imbalanced humours named Mal-[something], and is almost always going to be a less effective style than either simply showing what you intend to convey through the action, or having the telling done in-universe by a character or characters who can provide exposition and explanation for whatever is being told.
Meh, I'm like 100% convinced that it's just that different things are shown, told, and prioritized, because folks also routinely complain about the flatness of Japanese characters while totally ignoring all of the signs of characterization that are present.
This is what I've gradually gravitated toward with Asian media. The cultural norms are very different, and if you approach a work with your mind solely rooted in Western archetypes and ideals, you're going to miss quite a bit. Granted, I'm no expert, but simply trying to see things different ways has made a fairly substantial difference in my experiences with anime and manga.