Kickstarter is whatever suits your current argument the best. They took 80,000 dollars of other people's money and have nothing to show for it. There is nowhere else in the universe but video game kickstarters that people would try to defend that.
experimental research
Speculative drilling
casinos and lotteries
election campaigns
protection money
insurance
I could go on. And this isn't even about whether a kickstarter is donation or preorder, which is an argument I've never taken a side on. Just that there are lots and lots of speculative ventures out there, and to pretend there aren't strikes me as unreasonable.
Erm, you do realize that, except for casinos and lotteries, there are quite real consequences for not meeting a certain standard of expectation in those ventures, right?
Also, you do know that gambling doesn't really fall in the same category here. Like, at all? That is, unless you're willing to make a huge interpretative effort in order to push your argument, even if its just hilarious at best.
I don't think anyone is going overboard by being disappointed and wanting info on a project they put money towards. What is strange is why exactly people are so defensive of this specific project? What is wrong with being disappointed and suspicious of something that is, well, suspicious at the very least?
Also, like zerogravitas pointed out, KSG did claim they played the game. Except now the guy behind the DF forums account said he never did even witness the game being played. What gives?