Let's play a game. You have a gun, and a random stranger has a coin. If he flips heads, you shoot him in the face. Would you be okay with that game?
No. And how is this related?
Let's slightly modify this game for the sake of my argument.
The game now works like this: You hold your hands behind your back, with a gun in your right hand. The stranger picks one hand, and if it is the hand with the gun, you shoot him in the face.
Let's say that everything you said in this thread is true, and you are hypothetically playing this game.
Now assume the stranger picks the right hand. Therefore you shoot him in the face. Earlier you said that everything that happens to somebody is all his own fault. Since being shot happened to the stranger, it is the stranger's own fault that he was shot in the face (after all, he could have picked the left hand instead). So it wasn't your fault that you shot him. But since shooting a stranger happened to you, it was your fault that you shot him. Blatant contradiction.
Now the stranger is (or was) suffering. Since all suffering is punishment, this one is too. Since you helped God deal out some punishment, what you did was good. But killing people is a sin, therefore what you did was bad. Another contradiction.
Now this suffering is punishment for a sin that the stranger or one of their relatives did, let's say (for argument's sake) that his brother murdered someone. If the stranger had picked your left hand, he would not get punished. Since the shooting-in-his-face is punishment for the murder, the murder would not have happened (since you don't need to be punished for something that didn't happen). This means that it is impossible for the stranger to pick your left hand, which means he has no free will. One more contradiction.
Why do you get better treatment then others?
You want me to understand actions of the being that is much more complex and advanced than me? It's same as asking bacteria to understand some action of a human
What I am very not sure about is that it was a result of God's action. It's quite possible that it was a result of some unknown laws created by God, including results of human actions, decisions, thoughts and prayers
Well, you got your better treatment from the humans treating you, not from God. Since the humans have free will, they could have chosen not to treat you better than others, so it is entirely the humans' fault for treating you better. God has nothing to do with that.
Also, if God is so much more complex and advanced than you, then why do you think he would care about you? It's not like you would punish individual bacteria for killing other bacteria,
right?