Yeah that message doesn't explain shit when you're brand new.
"This area is scary!" ... yeah, I walked into a graveyard. So?
I wonder how many people just get absolutely fed up with the game quickly before realizing that you can do all 6 of the starter dungeons in a very easy order (that is almost never the one you start with) to make the early game very easy.
The "main quest" telling you to skip 4 dungeons is dumb as well.
Does anybody have some suggestions for beginner-friendly characters? I find it really hard to tell what to skill on most of them, and the magic ones in particular get overwhelming really fast.
Alchemist is about as easy at it gets, though I haven't played one in years. Most of the classes come down to picking a set of trees that all synergize, once you've either read a guide or died a bunch trying to learn. If you're up for reading, I wrote a long-winded alchemy guide
Here.It's pretty outdated. Short version:
Shalore, explosive admixtures first, max alchemist protection ASAP, then the others. Get the golem heal and let it run ahead to tank. Fire infusion is best.
Try the dungeons in this order:
Trollmire (DO NOT enter area 4. You'll get a warning if you should proceed, skip for now), north of Derth in the north middle of the map.
Norgos' lair, east of Trollmire.
Derth Arena, talk to the shady guy in town. You'll have to kill 3 jerks in a pit fight for delicious skill pionts.
Heart of the gloom, near Norgos' lair.
Kor'pul, the tower near Derth and Trollmire. go back to the last Trollmire area now, kill that area 4 boss. You should be fine.
Rhaloren camp, southwest on the map near Elvala.
Irritating Crystal Asshole Factory whose name I forget because I hate it, near the Rhaloren camp.
That should be a good start. The ones after this point that you
Should Not Do are: Elven Ruins, Last Hope Cemetery, Mark of the Spellblaze, Dreadfell. Sometime about now there should be a pop-up saying you hear screams in a dark crypt or something. This is a one-time encounter that will quite likely
Kill You Dead. avoid it for a few games until you have a better handle on things.