The red text was just my "This is my 'moderating the thread' statement" thing. Since I want to participate in the thread, I want to make it obvious whether I'm saying something as just somebody talking, or as somebody considering locking it to prevent a flamewar, and make sure that I'm not getting the roles confused in a sort of, "Fine, I'm leaving and taking my ball with me" sort of way. Probably should've been more explicit about that, in retrospect. For instance, "Quit being a douche, Shrugging Khan. You're not actually backing up your assertions of mental deficiency in theists, you're just repeating them loudly and at length." is not a rebuttal to anything he's said, and I don't want it to be treated as such (Zeus knows it'd open me up to all sorts of accusations about ad hominem attacks). It's just a reminder of the sort of standard of behavior expected in this thread, because it's precisely the, "You're all idiots/blasphemers/what have you" attitude that always leads to the flamewars for which religious topics are well-known, and I was hoping we might, for once, get past that. I didn't (and don't) expect to, but still. Hoping, anyway.
Anyway. The "You can believe whatever you want to believe as long as you're not hurting people" thing is generally a good place to work from, in terms of how you're going to regulate other people. This means that, yes, there are a lot of cases where you have to force people to do things against their beliefs (such as the aforementioned children situations), and I think that that's ok. Actually, here's a thing. What differences, if any, do you see between your criteria for how you act, and your criteria for how other people ought to act in terms of religious belief?