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[Dutchling]

oh boy

[mastahcheese]

ok sorry I did not know how to put thing into text and
I deleted I understand I
 was being at a low
level I don't want to sink that low we both have that problem and I put that
out in anger like he has on here
as well and being lucky he hasn't left you is not very understanding to
both sides also we have a open account agreement
 so this is not against his will we agreed to this also
 I just needed to vent like everyone else I have that right but agein im sorry I
 am not good at this
anyway I deleted it I understand I was being in the
heat of the moment we all have those
issues sometimes im not sure how to delete so I exchanged the message with
another and im not the only one who needs to fix things any way
im sorry agein im a noob

[FearfulJesuit]

ok sorry I did not know how to put thing into text and
I deleted I understand I
 was being at a low
level I don't want to sink that low we both have that problem and I put that
out in anger like he has on here
as well and being lucky he hasn't left you is not very understanding to
both sides also we have a open account agreement
 so this is not against his will we agreed to this also
 I just needed to vent like everyone else I have that right but agein im sorry I
 am not good at this
anyway I deleted it I understand I was being in the
heat of the moment we all have those
issues sometimes im not sure how to delete so I exchanged the message with
another and im not the only one who needs to fix things any way
im sorry agein im a noob

Should...we start making a paper trail for Mastah?

[mastahcheese]

anyways please don't reply to this anymore I made a mistake he has to
 I admit I was in the wrong and I will talk to him I needed to calm down im
sorry I made an idiot of myself im sorry
and to my husband who will read this im sorry I sunk low at a height
 temper time I know you will relate I made a silly childish mistake I love
 you and I want to work things out im willing to change and do better

[TD1]

The only way anyone can make an idiot of themselves is if they believe it themselves. Or, if they say they're an idiot enough times

Also, you probably posted in the most biased forum on the internet. Everyone here knows and loves Mastah, and none of us want things to go down hill for him.

[WillowLuman]

(Many ninjas)

Know this: with the relative anonymity granted by the internet, people often feel safer venting about private issues, and thus you might see truer and deeper things about them in their anonymous venting than you might see in person. But you do also only see their side of things.

Privacy is indeed important to people. It's true that, finding sympathy on the internet, perhaps people bolster their harmful preconceptions. But violating that privacy can also be very harmful. EDIT: though perhaps he has given you permission to see this, as you say.

Everything we know about you comes filtered through mastahcheese's perspective. While we can't say for certain the nature of the situation, we do know that he's feeling a lot of pain over this. Since you are accessing his account, and possibly reading what he has posted here, perhaps you can get a better understanding of his side of things that he hasn't been able to successfully communicate in person (that being one of the frustrations he has often noted), and thus come closer to a better understanding with each other. And, hopefully, reconciliation.

[Vector]

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[mastahcheese]

I realizes I over reacted and that we need to work on things I just wish he would of told me before
stating what he has it broke my trust but I also made a mistake by posting on here and now
I understand more I hope he understand I am sorry I made this mistake and that I will anything
 and everything to work things out and make things better for him hopefully now that
 I know he mistook some times by posts I read we can better come to an understanding of the problems
 we have I just hope he forgives me as I have forgiven him thanks for being understanding
and talking to me I never made such a stupid mistake

[mastahcheese]

we life together with 3 cats that's all but I did not relies all these things were bothering him I wish
we could be more open and I will try to talk to him I understand jacking his account was a petty
 mistake on my part but I hope he understands this we both have made mistakes

[TD1]

I...have to say that were anyone from real life to look through my posts it would feel like a violation to me. There are many things that are taboo to speak of in real life, but here I feel that I can have my say. I have expressed views here I know many friends and family of mine would find more than distasteful. I have shown, in many respects, more here than I have in real life. Not everyone is like me, I know, but I think you should ask Mastah before going through his posts.



Also, completely unrelated sad poem thing.

Spoiler (click to show/hide)

We all of us are born to die
When first we see the light
When first we question why
We all of us are born to die.

Light in this world goes dark so soon;
It has a spectral feel.
I’d ask, if I could, just one more boon-
That pain could stop, and hurt could heal.

I am the one that struggled forth
From misery and guilt.
Lost are my inner mines of worth;
Born to die, alive for death.

But yet a gleam is seen through banks of fog
A hope, a thought, a glimpse of unseen things.
More oft than not it leads into the bog,
The bog that scepticism brings.

And over all the world there’s hung,
Like men who scorned their higher cause,
A corpse of dread on wisdom strung;
And just like that, all thought is wrung.

No matter. Matter not at all,
All things on earth have got their time
And we may question why before we fall
But questions death’s engines can never stall.

[mastahcheese]

yea we agreed to the post reading thing but I understand now why he was being more secretive
and that an awesome poem can I re post that on my facebook page?

[TD1]

Eh....sure.

[Vector]

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[Cptn Kaladin Anrizlokum]

yea we agreed to the post reading thing but I understand now why he was being more secretive
and that an awesome poem can I re post that on my facebook page?

Hey, you could make an account instead of stealing Mastah's...

Also, both of you need to work on not getting angry. Even just leave the room if you start getting angry, and take some time to yourself? Maybe that would help? Admittedly I don't know much about you, and haven't really been keeping up with Mastah's posts, but maybe that could help?
(I always used to email my parents if they were mad at me and I wanted to avoid them, because email doesn't carry as much emotion through it I found.)

Also, I agree with what Vector said!
_{Fixing mistakes works much better than using his mistakes as an excuse to make your own...}

[Descan]

@MCwife: it's fairly obvious you have a bit of trouble with written communication, but it might help your marriage if you talk to MC through some sort of written messaging program. That way neither of you will want to interrupt, and MC seems like he's better at getting his point out through writing. This would solve both those issues, and possibly solve other problems

I mean, face-to-face hasn't seemed to work all that well, no?

I suggest email.