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[hops]

My palm is not a cat.

[mastahcheese]

Damn it, stop cutting yourself!

[Mr. Strange]

I believe Vector HAS left home. Unless something fell through with that, and I missed it. Or I'm thinking of someone else.

Indeed, Vector has left home. That was all stuff that happened on my parents' most recent visit up. I'm getting to the point where I'm planning on moving to longer-term housing, taking all of my stuff, and never darkening their goddamn doorway again.

At this point that sounds like a good plan.

My palm is not a cat.

Oh, you had me worried there for a second...
No, wait! No cutting your palms either!

[WillowLuman]

Any time. We'll be here for you throughout.

[Tiruin]

Objective, while the idea was good (offering of something you THINK is better than hugs), I've just to say that what you said...wholly lacked tact. Timing or otherwise.
-_-
Could you think about what you're posting before you do so? The state in which it is received is not an appreciable one.

If whatever vagueness those two posts are given their brevity and wording in which they're composed (yeah, its a feeling), then I do daresay that whenever you get into these moods or feelings, talk to someone you trust about it BEFORE DOING IT.
Because talking to others works. Not only does it work, it helps you decide. Why someone you trust? Because generally those people can aid you in deciding--sadness as an influence alone may go very well into destructive paths, if its a sadness of the self. In talking to others, they act as another influence to guide you on your path.

Don't cut yourself. If curiosity or whatever; no. ...Well, if for curiosity--then you now know, if you did it -_-

Vector/greatorder/others:
 *hugs*

Vector, I really hope they know exactly what you're telling us here ._.
Assumptions aren't good to hold (despite them being really obvious in your eye--maybe...they don't see the same thing you see, despite it being plaintively common sense). Maybe bring up the contradictions of what they did to check on their statements (just noting to inform them about their actions--I stand by what you did there. Also those threats are :/ but...given the response afterwards of your dad and such, doesn't look like they're sincerely heartfelt. While they love you...if in the very least in concept, it'd be best for the mental health to brush it aside to their attitude.).

On what your mom said: ...ugh. That's just...
:/

Though...all I say here is based on the idea that what happened was just a tiny fraction of what they did at their time there. If that was perfectly everything they did at their visit then... ^{I really hope this message doesn't get misinterpreted.}
I just hope they're informed of what they're doing to you.

[Vector]

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[~Neri]

Objective. Stop cutting. It is not healthy emotionally or physically. Just stop it. Talk to someone instead, voice your emotions, that will help so much more. I'm pretty much always available if you need someone to talk to and you can't find anyone else, and I'm sure most, if not all of the people here want to help you.

[Tiruin]

Tiruin, they know goddamn fucking well what they're doing. Their rationalization is "it's normal, everybody does it."

Just saying Vector ._.
As in, just saying on the .01% that what they did was a minor thing and they don't know what you think of what they're doing.
I just wanted to note it (despite the obviousness that what they're doing = bad given you leaving them...if my message was taken otherwise then sorry ._. didn't mean it that way...) as in: maybe they don't know what you think of them there?

But that's just horrible for them if its. . .normal.

[IronTomato]

Cutting? Yeah, cutting's a thing. It's easy enough. If you're really lucky, nothing bad will happen.

But if you're not such a lucky bastard, you could have an accident and end up bleeding profusely, putting yourself in huge danger. It could get infected, putting yourself in danger as well. You could cut too deep and permanently cripple a motor nerve. It could become a habit and continue indefinitely until one of these things happen, and there's other risks which I'll assume you've heard from the people who know much more about it than me.

So, yeah. Don't do it.

[hops]

I'm just helping the jerkass in the sky fill up his suffering quota.

[~Neri]

There is no jerkass in the sky. There isn't anything in the sky besides the atmosphere and life in the atmosphere. Nothing has a suffering quota.

[Mr. Strange]

I'm just helping the jerkass in the sky fill up his suffering quota.

The Greys? Don't worry, I've taken care of it already.

[Imperial Guardsman]

Yeah, it seems as if nothing is fun anymore. Nothing is interesting.

[~Neri]

Yeah, it seems as if nothing is fun anymore. Nothing is interesting.

I could probably suggest some things.

[Tiruin]

Goodness OBjective -_- Of all the reasons, that is the most logical reason you've got riding behind what you just did?
...This 'jerkass in the sky', which given your recent notes about it, is something you act on based on the tiiiny bit of context about what it is, equals self-cutting :v In all its wholeness and idea...is why you're (presumably) cutting yourself?
I don't even understand your viewpoint there. Well, the ideas I've seen do not make sense anyways.
Did you really cut yourself and are talking about it here or...what? Because the sense [wording/backing/context] of those last posts do not say anything done in good health.

Yeah, it seems as if nothing is fun anymore. Nothing is interesting.

'nothing' is a very limiting word, all said.
The last sentence is contradicted by the idea of 'seems'. Glad to know it 'seems' that way and isn't a fact.
But seriously, don't let what seems to be [in a bad sense] become what is. Thoughts are silly that way, but they can also go the other way.