Objective, while the idea was good (offering of something you THINK is better than hugs), I've just to say that what you said...wholly lacked tact. Timing or otherwise.
-_-
Could you think about what you're posting before you do so? The state in which it is received is not an appreciable one.
If whatever vagueness those two posts are given their brevity and wording in which they're composed (yeah, its a feeling), then I do daresay that whenever you get into these moods or feelings,
talk to someone you trust about it BEFORE DOING IT.Because talking to others
works. Not only does it work, it helps you decide. Why someone you trust? Because generally those people can aid you in deciding--sadness as an influence alone may go very well into destructive paths, if its a sadness of the self. In talking to others, they act as another influence to guide you on your path.
Don't cut yourself. If curiosity or whatever; no. ...Well, if for curiosity--then you now know, if you did it -_-
Vector/greatorder/others: *hugs*
Vector, I really hope they know exactly what you're telling us here ._.
Assumptions aren't good to hold (despite them being really obvious in your eye--maybe...they don't see the same thing you see, despite it being plaintively common sense). Maybe bring up the contradictions of what they did to check on their statements (just noting to inform them about their actions--I stand by what you did there. Also those threats are :/ but...given the response afterwards of your dad and such, doesn't look like they're sincerely heartfelt. While they love you...if in the very least in concept, it'd be best for the mental health to brush it aside to their attitude.).
On what your mom said: ...ugh. That's just...
:/
Though...all I say here is based on the idea that what happened was just a tiny fraction of what they did at their time there. If that was perfectly everything they did at their visit then...
I really hope this message doesn't get misinterpreted.I just hope they're informed of what they're doing to you.