To fight tired regurgitation with tired regurgitation.
To quote, "For I have faith and that is enough"
To quote, "The burden of proof is on the believer."
To return to real discussion, I'd say that being a "true
scotsman atheist" has to come with a massive side helping of bleak nihilism. Death is the cessation of electricity and chemicals, can come at any time without warning, and a person will have no way to see or know the effects of their life on the world after they leave.
Hedonistic Nihilism i.e. "Whatever doesn't hurt doesn't matter" would show that I'm better off pretending to be religious for the entirety of my life, going to church as needed and making all appropriate lip-service to the faith, because it doesn't hurt me and it probably makes grandma feel better.
Either due to pride or probably effort, I'm happier stubbornly refusing to believe and instead being a good person, and casting my defiance into the teeth of whatever would claim my soul anyway. In the eventuality that there is no afterlife, I've left the world an infinitesimally better place which is nice. In the possibility that there's a great judge who thinks it's more important that I believe in them than just live by the book without the belief, then they're not worthy.
Edit: My point, which got lost somewhere along the way as these things tend to go- is that nowhere in there am I under any stress to "educate" the indoctrinated. I envy the faithful their faith, and while I roll my eyes when a friend says their knee got healed after praying instead of resting, I'd die before becoming the atheist who always has to be ready to poke holes in people's stuff.
Ergo, I can't say it's a two-way street