Even though technically correct, the anti LGBT people whine and make hissyfits over being "Cancelled" all the time.
Again, as an actual centrist, I am VERY displeased at the appropriation of both sides, trying to *appear* middle of the road, as a tactic to try and convince people that they are "sensible". The rapaciousness in which this occurs in US politics is such, that there is effectively no actual center remaining in the US-- just charlatans of various stripes. (See also, Manchin, Sinema, and co.)
GONE are the days in which an actually moderate center could bring both extreme parties to the table, and get them to hammer out an agreement on something.
(I dont know how many times I have gotten into the crossfire of the LGBT issue, for making the clearly hot take that 'maybe 'in your face, fuckers!' type parades (with rather ribald choices of costume and social antics) is not the way to win hearts and minds, any more than say, a "Straight" parade, involving fetish kink (like black leather, whips, chains, and trapeze swings), contrasting victorianesque chastity-centric costume and LARP would--- then get told that I must hate gay people, or that I think gay people are not deserving of being respected and accepted in society. Nothing could be further from the truth. My position is more "some things being done are not very tactful, and that does not win hearts and minds." I think gay people are just another kind of ordinary, random person, and should be treated like ordinary, random people, and presented as ordinary random people.)
The reality is of course, more nuanced.
The "extreme display" nature of such parades is not really intended to be "Look! WE SO CRAZY!" (even though it rubs that way to the more moderate people of the country), it is "You cannot silence us or make us go away!" with the volume dialed up to 11.
The reason why it has to be dialed up to 11, is because the center has been co opted, and trying to reach the center just gets you redirected to either Republican-Lite or Democrat-Lite.
Given the volatile nature of basically all kinds of politics in the US, I would advise the LGBT people fleeing Ukraine to seek placement in more sensible countries that have more sensible politics. Like in Europe.
This is not because I think they "should be over there", it is because I see the "dry kindling volatility" with radical swings either direction, as "not safe for them."
That is to say, I dont want them to come here, after just having lost loved ones, and their motherfucking homes, cultural identity, et al---- only to have fucking Trump 2.0 (now with EXTRA NAZI!) elected after 2 years, and go through the whole thing ALL OVER AGAIN, only this time, "oh- ALSO "FILTHY IMMIGRANTS!" on top of it all.
They need stability.
The US cannot, with a straight face, lay claim to that.