I'm gonna be 40 this 9/11 you know...
I guess a few years, and perhaps geography, makes a difference; I'm only 28 months older than you.
I don't ascribe to prosperity gospel by the way: I ascribe to "work to better yourself and others, not complain about what others have." I also grew up knowing that work doesn't always lead to prosperity - "we live in a fallen world" and "the rain (that brings crops and therefore wealth) falls on the righteous and wicked alike".
I'm not talking about bootstrapping, I'm talking about what is important is what do you do with what you have, not how you compare to others.
I'm talking about understanding all sides of the virus response - the importance of both social distancing and basic hygiene and consideration of others
as well as the importance of keeping people working. Not for the sake of corporate profits, but for sake of the individual workers. I'm willing to accept "corporate profits" as a price for helping people stay sane by getting them back to work. Would I prefer other measures, like an official mortgage/rent holiday? Yes. But we don't have that; we have what are largely an inconsistent, incoherent set of measures.
I'm also aware that culture has shifted from "death is a part of life, yes let's not throw lives away but let's not spaz out about it" to a culture of "we must save all lives, no matter the cost!" The false dichotomy of "lives versus the economy" has got to stop - at some point the economy
is lives, so (as others have said) this is "lives versus lives".
Do we really have the hubris to say
which lives are more worthy than others, or that dealing with an acute illness (even with long-lasting effects) is more important than the long lingering effects of a broken economic system in general? I don't. I may not agree with the lifestyles of the "rich" but they are still people, so I can't condone "kicking them in the balls." I also can't support ostracizing people who want to
live their lives, go outside and play, heaven forbid go visit friends or family. Safety is not a single-axis quantity that consists of "no exposure to virus
du jour".
Individually any of the sentiments or actions that are surfacing because of the pandemic are not that concerning, but taken as a whole, the culture of ideas out there is deeply troubling. And yes it's not all because of the pandemic, much of it was there before - the stuff about government control and "community impact" versus individual agency. Stuff about sidestepping freedom of speech protections by hiding behind "they are a private company so they can censor hate speech if they want." Basically all the stuff about which interests have the greatest impact on various aspects of daily life.