Fair enough. I'd rather not call people a piece of shit anymore than approve of calling anyone that pisses you off a sub-human piece of garbage.
Brother sometimes I wish I had your attitude, because I probably couldn't get myself to think that was an option if my life depended on it. I've been spiraling into toxicity for the better part of the last decade, with ups and downs... So I'd like to say that I'll try to do better but the truth is that will probably be far down the list of my considerations next time I'll be as angry as the time I incited elder abuse only to defuse that into nazi terminology. TBF whomever is dragging him up there is abusing elders too... Anyway one thing is that you can be 100% sure of is that I will never be seduced by those so feared siren calls, no matter how fucking weird I get. The examples in your close entourage are tragic and all too common I know.
I'm not ok with it, frankly. Because it's removing levels. When all you can say is "bad person", then you're forced to use the same words to express disapproval of the person who cuts in line as for the person who promotes genocide. Part of my argument was that "piece of shit" is generic and weak, too. That's a phrase I'd use for your rank and file worthless dipshit who does nothing positive with their lives and treats everyone around them abusively. It's a cheap throw-away pejorative for someone who's not bad enough in scale or novelty to be worth impassioned expression. Someone on the order of Biden, who has had an influential hand in crafting legislation that has ruined hundreds of thousands of lives deserves far stronger than that. Hyperbole, and even sometimes being offensive, is linguistically and emotionally important.
And a massive critical differentiation between this and the racist friends in denial is that the racist friends are carelessly throwing words around at people *based on their intrinsic features*. Calling Biden a subhuman piece of garbage is based on a verifiable life history of intentional decisions made by them, with massive negative consequences for all of society.
If you honestly think that using language this way means someone who is using that language to enthusiastically express their disapproval of someone on the basis of their borderline fascist history is actually in danger of becoming the real fascist, then I don't know what else to say other than I vehemently disagree. I prioritize substance over aesthetics.
And FWIW, I'm honestly alright with discouraging the use of that specific pejorative based on the complaints lodged. It was the enthusiastic dogpile of shaming and *especially* this bit.
Well I mean, calling someone a subhuman in this context is indeed very close to Nazi territory, whether it's based upon their actions or not. Especially since Biden hasn't actually done anything you were angry at in your now removed comment, he's just spoken about what he would do. Declaring someone a subhuman based on their fully public, non-incitive, unofficial and frankly little-impact words to their supporters just downright doesn't make sense (and is obviously morally wrong.)
Which says to me "I believe fascism is bad based purely on the aesthetics of their behavior, not what actually happens to people as a result."
If the response were something like "hey I get you're angry and it's legit, but maybe you should say something like let's launch that motherfucker into space where he can die alone because he's that fucking awful instead of using the words 'subhuman piece of garbage' because it just rubs me the wrong way", then I wouldn't have stepped in at all. But stuff like the above I simply cannot stand for.
Being angry is not an excuse for being vile, and that's the exact same argument that'd be leveled at people you don't agree with.
Also, I don't agree with this. I don't care if my enemies are civil or not. I'd rather they be vile, and not "hide their power levels" behind civility.
Or we settle on the idea that if you mouth it, it's what you feel, the same way I'd pillory Ted Nuget for saying it, I'd pillory someone else for saying. The first step to fucking someone over is convincing yourself they're not worthy of the rights you'd extend to people you agree with.
Also it's worth pointing out that if you believe in criminals going to prison, then you literally already believe that people who have done things you don't agree with deserve less rights.