It's a common occurrence-- Previously disadvantaged group reaches parity with previously privileged group, still clings to disadvantaged status, demands (and gets, via cultural momentum) the privileged status, does not understand that they are now the privileged, still act like the disadvantaged.
Because having a V-J somehow makes you so much more vulnerable and needing of protection and special services than those with tallywhackers.
(Insert [disadvantaged group identifying characteristic] and [privileged group identifying characteristic] accordingly, and you have basically all such situations.)
EG:
Because those having [black skin] somehow makes you so much more vulnerable and needing protection and special services than those with [white skin].
The realization that aiming for higher than parity (the goal MLK and pals WANTED) results only in more racial animosity, claims of racism and reverse-racism, and who knows what all else, never seems to dawn on people.
Likewise with modern 3rd wave feminism, and their seemingly insane mad-dash for the return of the pedestal, and the resulting cries of misogyny, misandry, and general hysterics.
The gated community thing is more "Birds of a feather flock together", with the resulting cultural damage that unusual demographics (1% are naturally, 1% of the population) get misrepresented internally as the majority (All my friends are super wealthy, and so I have no conception at all what being a 99% is like! So, naturally, I act like a total douchebag all the time!).