ok I figured it out, forget quarry bushes, that is a huuuge waste of time. They are useless. Also milking animals is useless. What I did was
get 60 turkey hens and they got me food without doing any work.
My famer is going to stay a farmer and not going to do any other jobs, so might as well make him full time overload to get massive amounts of food. turkeys lay maybe once every 1-2 seasons. Every turkey gives me on average 12.5 eggs, so i start with 60 turkey hens and get ~750 eggs every season or two, which is easily 2k food by year 2. You don't need any farmers or anything to keep the chickens giving eggs, it is NOTHING like quarry bushes, it is sooo much better. By year 5 i had 10k food. So my farmer could focus all production on plump helmets, so i got maybe 2k drink by year 2 also, i don' know.
2 miners
1 carpenter (for beds and crap)
1 mason/stonecrafter (used for rock pots)
1 farmer (booze)
1 brewer (booze)
1 cook (food from eggs)
copper picks 2
dwarven ale 31
dwarven wine 31
plump helmet spawn 93 (planting)
copper short sword 1 (in case I need to kill something)
yak's milk 71 (cheapest food)
plump helmets 21 (to get started, so i don't run out of boozy)
60 turkey hens (eggs food)
2 turkey gobbler (eggs food)
6 dog girls (for killing wild animals outside for butcher meat)
2 dog boys (for killing wild animals outside for butcher meat)
3 cat boys (for pests)
2 sheep boys (for wool: 7 wool per sheep)
2 sheep girls (for wool: 7 wool per sheep)