So we got back together for a couple weeks then we mutually broke up because it isn't working at all.
I've been half depressed for the past few days and talking to more friends, going to start having friends over during summer to hopefully lessen the sadness. Started talking to a female friend a bit more, still kinda have a crush and nothing really keeping me from wanting to be more than friends now (though that's all we were while I was dating and I wouldn't have thought it any other way whith a GF). One of my other friends said I should try to date her, he told me this only a couple minutes after me telling him I'm single, though I do hate bring single.. Freaking sucks.. Trying to resist urge to find someone to date and not just chill about this crap for awhile
Roflmao. I saw this coming throughout the thread.
I had the exact same thing happen to me two years ago. It sucked. I was miserable for a bit. Then I went back into cocky boss mode, hit the dating sites, found a new broad, and we're happier than ever.
Relationships take practice. You have to shrug sometimes and not worry about things. You can't let problems eat at you, you can't nag too much, you just have to settle down and slip into things. It took me fifteen years to find someone I can be with (and also that amount of time to change my attitude a bit). Forget that old broad of yours. Hell, forget even having a "girlfriend".
After a breakup, you need to focus on YOU. You're emotionally fucked up a bit, you're feeling vulnerable and alone, etc. You need to take the time to heal up before you hit the dungeon again.
Party, talk to AS MANY FEMALES AS POSSIBLE, be happy to be alive and above ground. Don't focus on getting with a broad - that will just happen when you exude confidence and happiness.
I know it's tough to do that, but you have to. The alternative is to immediately seek out a long-term deal and settle back into your (obviously incorrect) way of thinking. You'll end up botching that one for whatever reason and be miserable AGAIN.
Take it easy. You have plenty of time.