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[eerr]

Just try and attract her instead, like a valentines gift.
Keep it down too just so you don't force her away.

[BFEL]

Just try and attract her instead, like a valentines gift.
Keep it down too just so you don't force her away.

NOP

She already said she doesn't WANT him trying to attract her, leave it be.
Thread should prob be locked, OP already got what he needed.

[Facekillz058]

Well, just popping here to say that my entire life for the last couple months has been going against everything all of you guys have said and I think it's working out a little maybe.
So maybe we shouldn't discount the obvious desperate male method of handling this situation entirely.
However yeah you should probably just give it up.

[Pnx]

This is true, it does sometimes work, and I was just talking with someone who said they harassed the hell out of their husband in order to get them to date them, and they wound up having a happy marriage out of the whole thing (though frankly given some of the really ugly stories she was telling, maybe I should be taking the whole "happy marriage" thing with a pinch of salt), but chasing someone doggedly until they spray your nose with mace, is really, really, really, a bad idea, you're setting yourself and the other person up for misery.

[kaijyuu]

Err, yeah, I would be EXTREMELY suspicious whether any relationship is happy that started with someone being pushy and not taking no for an answer.

The only way I can see it working out is if the pushy one eventually grew up and started respecting their partner. Not listening to their future partner's wishes shows a really blatant lack of respect.


Of course, it could be going great for the pushy one. They're probably in charge and keep their partner under their heel.

[UltraValican]

In retrospect, the word continue is a bit strong. I never actually tried courting her before simply telling her I had a thing for her, I guess the principle is still the same I guess. I've already decided my course of action concerning this matter. Let the cards fall where they will.