quick summary of drow, mostly for meph and people that didn't read the drizzt series (not the original triliogy its -literately- called the dark elf trilogy)
the drow are a highly religious society the highest ranking members of their society are priestesses
males are generally cannon fodder soldiers, the few highly respected males are mages or weaponmasters
females are generally stronger than males and are generally priestesses, those that are not are shunned (but still higher than males)
slave labor is perfered to normal labor (goblins orcs magical creations ect)
spiders are excessively holy, most males arent even allowed to look at one in the eyes
ALL drow are trained in weapons nearly all male are fighters / rogues
all drow have innate magical abilities, usually a focus makes them stronger - basic abilities are faefire (lights up an opponent) globe of darkness (exact words of the text) and limited levitation.
society in drow - is controlled chaos. as in . its not "against" the law to murder someone, its against the law to get "caught" murdering someone anyone that breaks the peace is punished, harshly (theres only one real punishment, death)
drow are a survivalist race. if their side is loosing a battle they will happily join their attackers (if they are drow. which is the most common form of enemy most face) having drow loose a battle with another sapient race is generally unheard of. they don't really play around in open warfare. (unless your as badass as drizzt of course)
they are generally "small" in number but fierce, while uncaring for one another but know if they need each other to survive (or win) they will use each other for selfish gain.
for instance in the intro for drizzt he was born mid battle to his mother (matron Do-urden) high prestess of the whole familys house and was going to be a sacrifice to their deity (lolth) for increased favor while they murdered a whole house family far up the ranks in the society. (under the cover of magical darkness.. no one saw it happen.. so its like they didnt exsist anymore
not sure how to translate this well for dwarf fortress, goblins and orcs would do the manual labor while males would do the meaningless crafting. while the females would lead society would do the high end crafting. all drow would be excessively tallented in martial skills.
no tantruming allowed in drow. - adamantite is their generic metal - like elves and their mithril - somehow starting in the cavern level would be "realistic"