what you're trying to get at is that the reason most movie's don't pass the Bechdel test, is because they're very character centric by nature?
Well just as an aside, I do believe most movies don't pass because they honestly don't give their movies gender diversity in both role and character amount. A large amount of movies have the one token female character.
I just don't think it is as much of a "easy pass" to pass the Bechdel test because of the character centric nature of movies. It does take effort to isolate only women for a non-main character based conversation without hurting the flow of the story...
And HECK even the ones who do manage that do it by simply using the same stereotypes... Using the "Mom" character is a common one.
And I think you've pretty much hit the nail on the head with that one. Almost every movie only has one major female character, and that character is almost always the love interest. When there are two female characters, they're almost always competing love interests. The reason so many movies have trouble passing the Bechdel test is because they seem to have a lot of trouble having two female characters whose roll does not revolve around a main male character. Or heck, even just one female character that fits that description.
I mean I'm pretty sure that virtually every movie I've seen that I can think of off the top of my head actually contains at least one scene where the characters talk about something not directly plot/character related
Aren't they talking about how another character's food is delicious or using the food as a leeway into another conversation OR using is as a symbol for what is going on?
"Mmmm your Apple Brown Betty sure is delicious"
No, they're pretty much always talking about food, or what food they like, or what food they want to have. But honestly that seems like it's about as far away from not talking about characters you're going to get. It also seriously happens at least once in every movie I can think of. Maybe just because food is easy to relate to (I mean everybody eats right?).
I'm also not sure that a neutral Bechdel test has much relevance to the argument honestly, I mean you can argue for the rights of furniture, and their ability to see stories about
them in their media, but I'm not sure many people will be with you on that one. :p
The official Bechdel Test though isn't clear about your question either though. It is actually one of the major criticisms about the test. Would a conversation where a woman as an aside says "These dishes aren't clean" to another woman count as a conversation not about men?
I'm not entirely sure, it might depend on your standards, but if it's just an offhand comment rather than a deeper discussion on washing dishes it might not count.
Honestly I think applying the Bechdel test to media is the same as looking at how much employers pay black employees versus their white counterparts. It may not indicate any fault on an individual basis, but it is a good way to show there's an endemic problem.