Or that. Just don't allow your choices to be constrained. It's all a mind game. It only works because we allow it.
The problem is that it only works because we allow it. Protest voting on an individual level is actively harmful, in that it increases the odds of the Republicans winning, and isn't going to get anyone else to make a protest vote. It's like playing Prisoner's dilemma with a bunch of people who don't know that this isn't the optimal outcome.
It may be most harmful in the short term, but I believe that continuing as we are is most harmful in the long term.
The Republicans are worse, but both are still horrible. And it's not just about enduring a steady level of horribleness under the Democrats. Things continue getting worse no matter which side is dominant. Democrats and Republicans alike continue to support rising economic inequality, environmental destruction, and the expansion the prison-industrial militarized police surveillance state. Our rights continue to be chipped away. The end result we're looking at is the same, except one side just pushes for it a little more aggressively.
I know that social causes are important and the Republican stances on them are really scary, but Democrats hurt our ability to be activists for those causes too. Police in the U.S. are notorious for aggression towards any left-wing activism (and I'm NOT only referencing Occupy here), so Democrats are hurting social causes too when they grant law enforcement greater surveillance and impunity. And the evils of bigotry will pale in comparison to the crushing poverty and ecosystem collapse we face in our lifetimes. For fucks sake, there are projections that the oceans will be nearly devoid of life before my kids are middle-aged.
And I've only witnessed a handful of people actually voice support for either of the two parties in the last few years. Almost everybody hates them both and is fed up, but believes that they have no choice but to hold on to tactical voting. I think it's an awareness problem. Everyone's too paranoid that there aren't enough people ready to abandon this facade, so they don't make significant gestures to display their readiness. I think any noticeable drop in support for them will have a cascading effect. But somebody has to take the first step.
And people on the right are fed up with Republicans, too. I never saw evidence of a single person who actually liked Romney outside of footage of his own support rallys. Every single person I spoke with or heard of who was voting for him was for the sole reason of opposing Obama, and were prepared to fight Romney on most of the stuff he wanted to do after electing him. It may not be to the same extent, but I believe they're acting on the same dilemma as the left.