The thing is that, on a pragmatic level, gender should either be abolished or accommodated to the individual's preference. If anyone can explain to me why it's bad to use someone's preferred pronouns outside of bureacracy, please, please, exp,ain it to me, because I can't really find anything that makes sense. I have been reading articles. I have joined anti-LGBT communities, I have talked to (claimed) KKK members and Neo-Nazis. And I just don't understand.
Now now Cinder, I get why bohandas was banned, but you're making a poor argument here. The whole "omg gender should be abolished" is an idea thats held dearly by far left leaning feminists/LGBT people and makes as much sense as everything else groups like Deep Green Resistance like to blabber about. Gender does, in fact, exist in nature and is a phenomena observed in pretty much every advanced species. Sure, we have attached social mechanisms to it, but it is very much NOT a socially constructed thing, at least not in its entirety, and its quite a relevant thing for the majority of the world's population. Its not something you can just "abolish" because it'll make some groups feel slightly better and pretend it'll magically solve all the related problems.
Using someoen's preferred pronouns isn't exactly ~abolishing gender~ though, so I'm ok with it, even though it more often then not does absolutely nothing to change my perceived idea of said person's gender. But ye, be less salty jeez :v
Regardless, I'm tired and this discussion has caused enough problems already. I'm sorry :v
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