So with my autopays - I get my bill before the withdraw date. So I have an opportunity to call the billing department before the withdrawal. Something like a $2000 electric bill would immediately be a red flag - that's more than I spend in a year.
Are your auto-pay systems not set up that way? It shouldn't be possible to get charged before you know how much it will cost, even for "pay as billed" accounts.
Mind you, this was
several years ago, so I don't recall ALL the details, but I think the autopay hit about a day after I received the bill.
Not expecting to get screwed, I didn't check the bill IMMEDIATELY. So by the time that I checked, the money was already gone.
...And the Electric Company denied doing anything wrong. It was only about a year later they figured it out, and I got a $2000 credit. And if I didn't have another account with them, what do YOU think would happen?
Credit or debit card autopay has just the same problems, although the credit card one at least means you don't need to pay it off right now, if you're the kind of freak who carries a balance. Disputing the charges isn't a solution because the charges are entirely legit and legal. You'll need to have a bigger emergency fund no matter what, because you've agreed to pay a bill without knowing what it will even be.
If you dispute the charge on a credit card, it becomes the Utility Company's job to Justify it to the Credit Card Company.
It totally changes the rules of the game.
WHY THE FUCK AM I ARGUING WITH YOU TWO ABOUT THIS!?