The thing that always makes me rage? This construction:
"I am ideologically opposite/opposed to [historic group that did bad things by thinking they were justified in inducing forced compliance in all others], so I [and my group] cannot possibly end up that way. [the new group that does bad things by thinking they are justified in inducing forced compliance in all others.]"
Never mind that they are hard at work doing that exact thing. [forced compliance of all others, out of the misguided belief that they are in the absolute right.]
It does not matter if it is [the gay people are aberrant!], or [unless you believe in jesus, you are going to hell!], or [You can never say anything I find offensive, EVER!], or [insert bombastically absurd pronouncement here]--- the construction holds:
A group believes that "WE ARE RIGHT! THE OTHERS ARE WRONG!", and in so doing, feels justified in their actions to FORCE all others into compliance.
This was true of nazification [We are the MASTER RACE, and all those inferiors MUST be purged!], and it is true of forced pronoun use [We prefer 'shglee' and "hmer" for our outlier identity pronouns, and if you fail to respect that, there's jail time!], and it is true of this absurd notion that you must never say anything offensive, ever [I find that speech to be undesirable and it must be banned from use, with severe recriminatory consequences if violated!]
Sure, there's differences in the degrees of how bad each of those are, but they are *ALL* *BAD*. They all stem from the same root, which is the desire to feel in the glorious fire of righteousness, against the tyranny and evil of the establishment. (nevermind that the establishment is often representative of the bulk/majority of the civilization, which is why it is so entrenched and empowered to begin with.)
People need to stop thinking that they are better than other people. That's the crux of this.