So, ContraPoints did a new video, this time regarding the meaning of freedom, safe spaces and trigger warnings.
Personally I think the big problem with safe spaces and trigger warnings at college, is that college is meant to prepare you for dealing with the real world. And in the real world, those things don't exist. Sure, some people come from modern colleges into the realm of private enterprise and want to try and force them to have all the trigger warning / safe space bullshit, but. that. is. bullshit. Private business is a competitive enterprise, by definition. By wrapping students in cotton wool, you fail to prepare them for the real world. And notice that the college students who have the
least cotton-wool padding support end up going the furthest in society.
And trigger warnings will always be bullshit, as long as there's an "approved list" of things you're "allowed" to be upset about. And if something not on the list causes you emotional discomfort, then "fuck you" basically. That attitude shows there's another layer of agenda here. In actuality there are
countless things that could upset someone. But "trigger warnings" are only "allowed" to be applied to a small subset of people's things that upset them. I've met quite a few "safe space" types who enjoy being bullies about anything that's not in the "trigger warning approved list". They're not nice people.
Playing devil's advocate but imagine if someone had a bad experience with a same-sex assault and said they were "triggered" by seeing two guys kissing, and can you please not do that in front of me because i'm "triggered" by that and want a "safe space" where I don't have to see it. Would the "safe space" people respect that? Probably not. They'd probably verbally attack that person and shove gay imagery in their face. The thing is this has
almost nothing to do with respecting people's right to not encounter things that upset them, and everything to do with campus advocates expanding a
political sphere which pushes the whole (approved) victim's advocacy machinery. And it's very little about
actual victims, but about pushing the cultural power of "allies". i.e. usually white, often male, usually cis, college professors and students, who "ally" with all those things despite being none of them.
e.g. I had one friend of a friend who's all "safe spacy" pull "ageist" shit on me, because to them age wasn't a protected category. So they felt it was perfectly fine to bully me about being older than them. This person was full SJW but decided it's ok to be rude and demeaning about things that aren't in the "official SJW black list". I also had a college professors for a postmodernism class I needed to take, and that guy was super-SJW but then he was ridiculing and insulting the subcultures that different people in the class belonged to such as goths, punks, and one girl who was into sports, he demeaned that, too. If someone is up the front taking the piss out of the group identity / lifestyle of a large number of my friends then those are punching words, but mr cis-white middle class college professor thought it was totally ok to take the piss out of working class subcultures because they're not in his precious LGBT/women/non-white "protected" classes. This guy was like the walking stereotype. e.g. would happily abuse christians sitting right in the class, but if you said the same about muslims (who aren't in the class) he'd probably go all holier-than-thou on yer ass.
So. fuck. those. people. Being nice and respectful should be a "whitelist" situation, where you look at each person as an individual and try to accomodate their feelings. It should not be a "blacklist" situation where you can say anything abusive to anyone you want, but just check you're not accidentaly saying it about something on "the list".