And I dislike when people parrot this argument like the first amendment is the only thing that defines free speech. Why is it not a fundamental right? Why does it deserve less protection than freedom of religion, free movement, or whatever you hold to be fundamental?
"A person's rights stop where another person's start". For example, the right to religious freedom stops applying when actions from it impede the rights rights of another.
It's simple: If a person is in your house, you are allowed to tell him to get the fuck out or shut the fuck up. Those are the two options available to that person, at that point. They're free to still hold that opinion. Free to still hold that belief. Free to leave your house. They aren't free to keep talking without forfeiting their right to be on your private property. You have retracted that consent. You can't suppress the opinion, just the expression of that opinion in an area under your private control. And you're free to gather together and shout louder than them in a public space to drown them out, if they go outside and start shouting.
You can't use violence to prevent them either, legally. I'm not saying that using violence is right or justified. I am saying it is an understandable response, though not one that can be condoned, when you believe the current powers in government are literally seeking to remove your basic rights in your country of citizenship,
especially when historically those rights have not been afforded to you.
People still need to be arrested, laws enforced, but just pointing at it and going "See, those violent SJWs are no better" really is
completely missing the point. "Treat a person like an animal for long enough and they'll eventually act like one" and all that.
(As for the misgendering thing, I fail to see how "You can't continue to write incorrect information down on legal documents after being informed that it is incorrect" is the same as "Being gay should mean people are allowed to lock you up in a mental hospital without your consent" are equitable positions. It's like when people claim the temporary suspension of new visas from Iraq under Obama is equivalent to what Trump did, despite the scale, context and consequences all being much different with the Obama EO).