First of all, not trying to be rude, ideas are worth fuck-all. Every human being on this planet has lots of ideas, but until they are fulfilled they are worthless. A good writer/whatever can make the worst idea into masterpiece, and the best idea in the world won't save bad writer; the end result will be shit. Imagining things is pretty much efforless task, it's the writing that is the hard part. With all that in mind why should anyone help you with your idea when they can take the time and work on one of their own? To work on something they are passionate about themselves.
When it comes to the actual writing, here is the secret: no human being in the history of the universe has ever liked writing and no human being ever will. Writing is work and all work is tedious.
So how do you overcome that? Well, what's the difference between a writer and non-writer? Writer writes. If you write, you are a writer, if not, you are not a writer. There isn't really much to it; you grit your teeth, sit on your ass and write. And when it gets boring you write some more. And when you lose your motivation you write some more. And when just thinking about writing fills you with despair you write some more. That's really it.
In any case, best of luck to your future endeavors.
Firstly, I would consider your post an attempt to help me. And to your question, why should anyone take the time to help me, they shouldn't. Nobody should do anything, ever, in my opinion. Unless THEY feel they should. As I said, this was a shot in the dark and I expect nothing.
I disagree with a couple of your points. I don't really think ideas are worthless if unfulfilled, but that's because of my personal beliefs. I consider humans to be connected in some way, so ideas that may be unfulfilled through me, may find their way to someone else who is more inclined to do something with it.. But that's off topic, just wanted to clarify.. The other point I don't agree with because I find it to be a personal thing, is the effort it takes to imagine things. Many people have difficulty imaging much at all, let alone huge worlds, or even nuanced things about something small. Likewise, for some, it is a seemingly effortless task. And I don't agree that everyone dreads writing, it's likely commonplace but it comes more naturally for some, I'm sure. Especially when certain enviromental conditions support it, like most things.
As far as the work aspect of writing.. I have heard that before, and I will take the advice to heart. I have attempted to blow through it before but ended up getting lost in frustration and self doubt. It's hard to force myself to have motiovation on one singular thing after I'm drawn to something else. I tend to obsess over things for short bursts and then lose all interest, and desire, to work on them anymore. Or play them (In the case of video games). I've tried different approaches to affect this, but nothing really works for me. I think it has to do with my ADHD, but I feel a lot of it is a lack of discipline. So I've been teaching myself to be more disciplined, which is a bitch.. As a result, I don't really find reaching out to be a bad thing.
Maybe there's more to it, maybe there's less. Maybe I'm just not trying hard enough.. Perhaps there's some sort of subconsious resistence that's causing me to adhere to this pattern, perhaps through fear or some other sort of trauma induced bullshit I'm unaware of.. Whatever it is, I intend to break it. It's something that's plagued me for most of my adult life. Sometimes, it just helps to get it all out there. And if nothing else, I'm WRITING this huge forum post, heh.