Dude, I think you need to take a chill pill. You are way, way too upset about this.
I'm hardly worked up about this, and I can't see why arguing about the finer details of a topic I care about should be interpreted as "getting upset."
"I'm not sure how people manage to get stuck on the idea that the obtuse interface is literally impossible to wrangle."
This was probably the most hostile part of my post, and I stand behind it. It doesn't suggest addons are morally wrong, nor does it preclude their use, nor do I insult those who use addons (this would be especially odd because I use DFhack myself). It's just my experiences with posters demanding interface improvements and criticizing the devs for failing to provide have made me want to speak against that notion that the interface is impossible. It just isn't, proof being me and a gazijillion other players who download and play the newest updates as soon as they show up.
Acknowledging that Toady's chosen methods have immense flaws is not being 'disrespectful', and I'm not at all sure how you got that idea. It's acknowledging the current realities of playing Dwarf Fortress.
I don't think I ever said it was disrespectful (and I'm not at all sure how you got that idea) to state criticisms of the current state of the game, so thanks for reminding me - I'll just say it now.
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Just kidding! There is a certain lack of respect towards the devs when a person waltzs up with a list of "Undoubtedly Necessary Improvements
I Thought of Last Night" and expects hasty implementation, but just criticizing the game or the dev process? That's awesome.
Perhaps I'm more concerned with the lack of respect towards the search function, considering these sorts of posts are fairly regular around here and many echo the same, tired points. Most fail to acknowledge that the need for interface improvements has already been, well, acknowledged.
However, if you think your criticisms of the development process ("Toady's chosen methods have immense flaws") are objective statements and not just opinions, then you might have trouble understanding my viewpoint.
Sort of unrelated, but I once attended a games journalism meetup at my college, where everyone was asked to name themselves and their favorite game. I remember stating "Dwarf Fortress, the only true game. . . " in a sort of sardonic fashion (hey I was younger then) and one woman from the front immediately spouted, "Dwarf fortress isn't a game!" I was so shocked at her opinion-shared-as-fact I couldn't think to say anything back. I did my best to understand her perspective (well, as best as I could guess what that perspective was because she later refused to talk to me) and concluded that some people really, really can't stand the "presentation" of DF. This experience informed me on the normal reaction to DF, and I now realize that anyone who attempts to come up with even a smidgen of real criticism is worthy of respect and an open ear.