I can accept the incrementalism as most practical argument on some things, but not others. It disappoints you that Clinton voted for the Iraq War. It disappoints me that Bernie wouldn't vote for health care reform that would make things better, even if it's not as much as he'd like. Assuming that was his reasoning, and not actual opposition for some reason. I'm not reading into the 1993 proposals in detail.
But I feel that moderation and focus on steady single-issue progress as a standard has been apologism and obfuscation for sliding into a worse situation in general for too long. We get some modest health care reform passed. We get some gay marriage rights. Meanwhile surveillance, secrecy, and generally authoritarian behavior continue to get worse. Criminalization of activism continues to get worse. Criminalization of the poor continues to get worse. Belligerence and criminality of law enforcement continues to get worse. Inequality accelerates at an obscene pace, even as we're told the economy is recovering. The environment teeters on the brink of unrecoverable.
People get sick of it and motivated to actually get something done in a way that compares to how these issues were fought against in the past. And just as in the past, we're told "Whoa. Slow down. This isn't going to work out for you. We promise we're working on this. Just give us time. I'm sorry, but you just have to bend over and take it for now." But unlike those who got shit done in the past, we're listening to them. And things continue getting worse. And our president champion of the realistic moderate goes and pardons a few hundred out some hundreds of thousands of non-violent drug offenders, but apparently continues to support the incarceration of an unprecedented number of whistleblowers who revealed horrible crimes (because regardless of how you feel about what they did, they broke the law, right?), without a word on the criminals who were exposed. He expands offshore oil drilling after one of the worst environmental disasters in history because of offshore oil drilling. And we're supposed to believe that the realistic moderate is on our side.
It's a tougher sell than just saying "you're not realistic". I have to understand why I should trust someone who repeats the rhetoric that people like myself have come to associate with a lot of things getting worse, while a small number of things get slightly better, and who has a history of association with the people responsible for things getting worse. Who served on the board of directors for Wal-Mart of all things. Who can't even keep her story straight on whether she wants to eliminate coal as an energy source, depending on who she's talking to.