Please recommend me an MMORPG.
1: I'm playing with my girlfriend and we should be able to party up with other players and do stuff in a meaningful way.
2: I expect it to be a client download. If you recommend a browser game, it needs to be more like a standard MMO than KOL, Travian, Therian, etc.
3: I don't want irredeemably stupid shit to happen constantly. For example,
3A: If I walk past a monster it shouldn't just ignore me until I attack it. The AI sensing range on the Elder Scrolls Online beta made me cringe so hard I broke a tooth.
3B: I don't want a backpack full of items that I need to keep for quest rewards, crafting, etc. If I do a thing, I want to either get the reward for the thing or else not, whatever. Don't make me collect 20 Hog Eyes or whatever for damn near every quest.
3C: I don't want the game to be just fields of scarecrow monsters standing around and you level up so you can get to the next field.
3D: Too much mindless running. If you think a feature to hold down the run button so you can go make a sammich would be a good idea, there's too much space between fun things.
4: I have a lot of tolerance for dated graphics, but my girlfriend doesn't want to play something that's totally pixelated. She's seen UO and was uninterested in those graphics.
5: I'd prefer to subscribe and get access to the whole game rather than micropaying to death in a cash shop. Or pay for the game but nothing after that, like Guild Wars. If the cash shop is the only option, I don't want to be paying any more than $10 a month to get access to all the content.
6: I would really like to have an active combat system with FPS-style WASD + Mouselook movement.
Here's a list of MMOs that don't qualify:
WoW (stupid fetch quests, pointless collection, fields of scarecrows)
TESO (looks like fields of scarecrows)
DDO (too much collecting, client actually doesn't work with my machine reliably for some reason)
EQ (scarecrow fields as far as the eye can see, lots of running)
UO (GF won't like the graphics)
Anarchy Online (dated graphics, scarecrow fields in the overworld, LOTS of mindless running)
SW:TOR (special mention for horrible dialogue - seriously telling me the whole game is fully voice acted is NOT sweetening this deal. Also, client didn't work on my machine reliably)
If you disagree with my complaints about some of the specific games I've mentioned please speak up - but maybe you just don't mind those features, which isn't the same as me being wrong that the feature exists.
Here are some that I might like - do you think they might fit what I want?
Guild Wars 2
LotR Online
FF14