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Yes

32 (88.9%)

No

4 (11.1%)

Yes, but not now (explain)

0 (0%)

Total Members Voted: 36

Voting closed: July 30, 2013, 07:03:40 pm

[Helgoland]

Yup, see title - I'm thinking about asking out that Spanish girl from my semester. Real cute, and I've gotten to know her quite well in the past two or three months.
Bay12, you have until 11:30. Get voting

[Xeron]

Good luck

[Xantalos]

This can in no way go wrong.

[Helgoland]

If it does, the hilarity of this thread will be more than enough to compensate

[Xantalos]

How could anyone refuse you with that magnificent beard, though?

[Helgoland]

My avatar may just be me compensating... NOT TRUE I HAVE AWESUM BEARDD!
It might be worth a shot rocking the Groucho stache tomorrow... I'll think about it

[Lectorog]

My policy on these matters is to always try things out, so you know my vote.

I approve of this topic.

[Vector]

. . .

I'm not voting because I suspect that you'll do what you want to do either way, and what you really want is to open yourself up to community support.  And because I'm a tool.

I hope you're both very happy.

[Heron TSG]

Ooh, ooh, flip a coin and then tell us which side you wanted it to land on. 

[Max White]

Before you view the results tonight, ask yourself, what do you want them to say? Then, find a florist.

[Ozarck]

With only this thread as context, I say ask her. What's the worst that could happen? Her crime boss father discovers that you are hitting on her, and reports this to the family of her fiance, whom he has arranged for her to marry since birth in order to cement an alliance between the two powerful, ruthless clans? Or, even worse, she could say no?

If the question boils down to: I ant to, but am afraid," then go for it. If it boils down to "I am not sure she is right for me, or vice versa," then go for it - you'll find out if your a match. If the question, on the other hand is along the lines of "I have a lot of issues I need to work out before I am fit for society, and she likes to set things on fire," then I would say, perhaps you should wait a while. Why add burdens to a life already too complicated? Strive, in that case, to become happy, content, or at least resigned to live with yourself, before expecting another person to do the same.

Good luck, and God Bless.

[Heron TSG]

If she's a lady of high class, you might want to try channeling a spirit animal.

[anzki4]

Please note that I was impatient and voted after just reading the title and the question "Should I?" and answered no, you shouldn't ask Bay12 to make your decisions for you.

For the matter of asking her out, you shouldn't ask Bay12 to make your decisions for you. That being said, go for it.

[DJ]

Now you have to make all your relationship decisions based on B12 polls.

[Helgoland]

Ooh, ooh, flip a coin and then tell us which side you wanted it to land on. 

My normal procedure
Seriously not going simply by the voting result - I'm planning on, let's say, taking it into my considerations