The "voting with your wallet" thing isn't as simple as it's made out to be. If you're a gamer, you probably have gamer friends. If you have gamer friends, they probably pressure you to join them in the games that they play. If you refuse to ever compromise with them, you're probably kind of a dick. Chances are you're going to cave in and spend some time playing shitty games. I absolutely hate League of Legends. Seriously, that game pisses me off so much... but the majority of my gamer friends, including my own wife, play it every single night. I would consider myself a horrible friend/husband if I never joined in. Somebody mentioned much earlier in the thread that they're frustrated how most games seem imbalanced towards multiplayer focus anymore. This is why! They're very aware of the effect of social pressures. After a while, my frustration builds up and I'm going to feel like raging about the gaming industry.
I don't think playing a game that you hate is part of being a good friend.
Trying a game that you think you'll hate can be, but I don't think it makes you a dick if you don't do something you can't stand to do. In fact, I'd say it'd make your friends dicks if they expected you to do something you hate just because they do it. Being a good friend is not about spending as much time with your friends as possible, it's about being considerate of their desires, and if they're expecting you to do something that you hate, that's not being very considerate at all. As long as you're not berating the game and them for playing it I don't see why you'd be expected to play something you have nothing but distaste for.
It's different with your wife. But in that situation I would just talk with her, let her know how much I dislike the game and try to get her to do something else some nights. Marriage isn't about one-way concessions, and if you really can't stand the game ideally should would understand and forgive you for it.
Btw... I think it's absolutely shitty and one of the most condescending things possible when people take a large chunk of time out of their day to venture into a social space that no one is forcing them to participate in just to tell other people they're stupid for complaining about something. It's essentially complaining about complaining (and I'm complaining about it). What the fuck is wrong with people simply expressing something that's on their mind and bothering them? Isn't that the whole point of communication? It's especially stupid when someone tells others they're wasting their time complaining about something... I can't think of a more hypocritical thing to say. If you think it's so trivial, then why are you bothering to go out of your way to disrupt it. Either you love wasting your time so much that you'll waste it on things that you don't even care about, or you actually do care about it and just refuse to directly tell people you don't like what they're saying. It's would be an entirely different thing if someone was standing on the sidewalk in front of your home screaming about the death of the gaming industry, but a forum thread?... please...
I'm not sure if this was directed at me in any way, but... Because sometimes that complaining is destructive. If you're complaint is that the gaming industry is dead because of
x game not only do I think you're wrong, but I think your ideas are detrimental to the medium as a whole, and I have a right to say so.
A person cannot simply choose to avoid the culture that is all around them. You can choose not to play a game, but you can't choose to have friends, family, classmates, co-workers, etc who don't. Many will participate simply to be involved.
You can avoid the culture around you. It's possible and while I'm not gonna lie and say I'm a paragon of discipline and morality because of it (because I'm absolutely not) I've been doing it for about as long as I remember. It's just not possible to avoid the culture and then participate in it, you can't have it both ways. Either you don't watch movies/play games/read books you don't like and therefore are unable to discuss them, or you do and you are. It's a choice, and if you don't think alienating yourself from the mainstream is worth it (and I can understand why not) that's fine, but the option is still there regardless.
The console thing is horrible. Why do consoles exist at this point? I can tell you why they did at one time. Most people didn't have a home computer, weren't familiar enough with them to bother, consoles were cheaper, and internet wasn't a major draw. Now every one of those circumstances has completely flipped. Why do they exist now? They're not even notably different from PCs anymore!
Have you ever spent an hour trying to get a game to work on PC? I already have this year (Crysis). How about on console? I have once (Saints Row) and I've owned a lot of consoles. Consoles exist because console games just work. It's the same philosophy that's behind Apple products. I agree that the line is blurring between PC and console in a bad way, but it's not like consoles don't have their place.
I'd also like to say that the research argument isn't completely sound. Most games don't have decent demos these days. Many don't have demos at all, and there have been many game demos noted as being completely unrepresentative of the final product. You can't rely completely on word of mouth, either. Fallout 3 is an example there. I waited quite a while before buying it. Everyone I knew liked it. I'm still the only person I know who didn't like it. I watched gameplay videos and everything. It looked amazing. I bought it and tried really, really hard to like it. I did like it at first. But it was after 10-15 hours that the blandness of the environment began to sink in...
I think enjoying a game for 10-15 hours is worth the money the game cost, especially if the price had gone down by the time you bought it. And sometimes you are going to buy things that end up disappointing you. It happens. If you care particularly about it you can do all kinds of research, up to and including pirating the game, but unless you're playing the pirated copy for 10 hours then I don't think you'll get rid of the experience, just mitigate it. Personally I don't mind so much about buying something I won't like, maybe because I have unreasonably high standards, and that nonchalance has led me to enjoy games I might otherwise not have, if I pirated everything first. Sometimes I'll buy a game and not like it. But I'll keep playing for a few hours because hey, I paid for it so I should at least give it a chance. And occasionally after the first few hours my feelings will change or the game itself will even improve. It works both ways and both options have their ups and downs. Either way you're not going to completely eradicate purchases that you're going to be disappointed in, though. And I really think 10-15 hours is sufficient for a game. I paid probably $30 for Fallout 3 and I don't think I got much more enjoyment out of it. It's an ok game, but I'm not sad I bought it.
Actually yes. That's what made me read that goddamn contract in first place. And I don't acess my steam account in like 8 months, because of that event. I mostly pirated games, and after I had problems with steam I now ONLY play pirated games.
Ok, so what was your problem? Did you ever contact Steam support? You can say that you shouldn't have to, but services are gonna have problems sometimes, and while it can be annoying to have to contact support, it's a completely different problem from them locking you out of your account. So did you even try to get the problem resolved or did you just default into a position that enjoys the benefits of an industry without actually contributing to it?
And what about indie games? Please tell me you are not pirating indie games. And if you are, please tell me you are at least donating to the creators.