My position on the topic: We're making way too much of a fuss about this. Feminism has become mainstream; everyone's internalized it ("Stab in a gender neutral way!"). What sexism remains will slowly vanish as the new generation grows up, just like racism (at least tendencially) is on the decline.
That's not to say that feminism has no function today; I just think everyone needs to relax and become a bit less dogmatic.
I actually disagree with this on the basis that our society still forces certain things on people of either gender to a rather large extent. You would be especially aware of this if you decided to approach gender in your day to day life in a different way than is normal. However, there are still some pretty huge issues, and some youth continue to approach women or men from this biased perspective of what is expected of them, so no, i do not believe we are yet at the part of our history where we can expect sexual discrimination to slowly be weeded out.
Edit: I would like to point out that sexual equality is really important to and effects me personally, so you could either say i'm prejudiced or that i have a closer view of the ground then some folks.
If you'll excuse my politicizing of your post, I'd like to use this opportunity to grab a soapbox.
One of the central concepts that a lot of feminist works and movements use to describe social interactions is the theory of privilege. Basically, the idea is that society treats people adhering to a certain (often arbitrary) standard better than others.
Your example is the dichotomy between 'classic' and 'non-classic' sexuality. If you're straight, yay, you're safe. If you're gay, you have to put up with verbal harassment, your sexuality being used in a derogatory way and possibly even assault for expressing your sexuality. If you're a polygamous crossdressing submissive man with a scat fetish, people are going to see you as some kind of freak. Not being labeled a freak is a privilege straight people have.
Now, the thing about privilege is that if you have it, it's quite difficult to understand what it's like to not have said privilege (do the men here really know what it feels like to be cat-called, for example?). As such, I think it's necessary to listen to those with personal experience instead of dismissing their accounts because they do not fit your narrative. After all, a world view that labels half the population as oversensitive, for example, is probably not a good one.