I asked Llamabeast (the guy who runs the Llamaserver) to postpone the game a bit, considering we currently don't appear to have any admins, and he kindly did. He also provided me with the admin password (though currently I won't use it, since I feel I'd be stepping on Scriptwolf and a1s's toes a bit if I did). Hopefully Scriptwolf will get well soon!
Also, I wouldn't really suggest setting yourself to AI if you're not at war. The AI declares war basically arbitrarily, and while it will probably not attack someone at random if it's about to die, if you're at peace there's a good chance the AI will just pick a neighbor at random to go to war with. Not to mention the AI is worse than even the worst of human players at this game, and we're just now getting to the point where battle magic to deal with the AI's chaff hordes is readily accessible. Setting yourself to AI basically means free provinces for the people around you.
Of course, finding a sub for a player even in the best situation is hard, too. Personally, when I think I can't win I just try to do as much as I can to wreck whoever wrecked me. It's very satisfying to know the guy who took your capital wishes they hadn't!
if your last fort isn't about to fall, chances are you can turn your game around and, if not win, at least put in a strong showing. I know some of you guys are new to MP dominions, so I'd be willing to give you some advice if you think you need it, though you might want to try another source, like the
IRC channel or
Dom3 wiki, considering I'm one of your rivals for godhood.