I am stricken by anxiety between every restart. It's hard for me to keep interested in a game when one little mistake can cost me countless hours of work. Getting over that is required to play DF, IMO, because that will happen all the time.
Today I lost my Mechanic within about 5 minutes experimenting with carving fortifications in a frozen river. The fortifications didn't even remain when the river unfroze
Then I had a strange mood hit one of my other dwarves, and he wanted the
only workshop I hadn't built, a glass furnace. So after about 20 minutes of wondering why he was sitting around doing nothing, I built the glass furnace and off he went. Then I realize I have no glass. And no sand on my embark. Luckily, there was a caravan parked at the time, so I traded them a pile of dolomite rocks (I had no crafted goods) for the only affordable pieces of glass that they had. He took one piece of it, and left the other pieces, for reasons I don't understand. He kept asking for glass, but didn't want the clear glass that I bought, only the one piece of green glass. So with nothing else I could do, he eventually went berserk and started killing all of my pets and livestock.
Meanwhile, the rest of my fort is dropping dead from thirst because I neglected to get a farm going.
SCREW IT, ABANDON FORTRESS
I love this game.