I've been playing DF for a while, now, and I'm currently ~3.5 years and ~90 dwarfs into one of my more successful forts. A meager but thus-far adequate military program, a brand new, secondary fort underway just above the magma sea, food/drink stockpiled to last for years (meal rot an occasional nuisance), ~2.5M dwarfbucks net worth and plenty of trade goods for the forseeable future. A bright future.
Except for that one line in the corner which reads "12 FPS".
I've tried especially hard this time around to be pro-active with FPS management -- built my first serious atom-smasher and put it to constant use, gave away a ton of crap to the caravans, designated traffic zones, etc. Disabling temperature&weather has a limited effect (adds ~10 FPS, at this point), and could probably buy this fort another year or two of growth. The effect of traffic control is negligible (my forts are mostly vertical, with very few mining shafts or open areas-- I think pathing is as efficient as it will ever get).
I suspect it is the sheer number of items on the map that is responsible for the majority of my FPS woes, but at full employment already for my 90 dwarfs and 10-12 FPS (or 18-24 with temperature off), I don't see how I will ever clean this fort back down to bare necessities. There's always more shit to haul to the dump. So fcuk it, I'll massacre them and start a new one. A cleaner one.
So, what I want to ask you is: How do YOU manage your fort's clutter / FPS? How do you know how many socks is too many socks? What tricks have you learned to expedite your dumping projects, combat packratism, and postpone the inevitable?