That isn't true though. It isn't a scam that you refuse to play unless you have the nicest ship. You can hop in a cheap frig and join a corp to fight with on day 1. Furthermore, 99% of eve is knowing HOW to play it and WHO to pay with. Even if CCP let you jump in a nice expensive ship on day 1 you would only get blown up in it because you had no corp and no knowledge of what to do.
That 99% can apply to any multiplayer game there is. I say the very same thing about TF2. It's not about having the nicest ship. It's about waiting 10 days to have something that at most increases your abilities in 5%. It's waiting a week or more to be able to try another ship. Everything skill related in EVE is meant to make you wait to have diversity and choice. Not only that, but it's exponential waiting, even when you get all the training skills and do like I used to do back in the way, minmax your character for training, you still have to wait a long fucking time just to get your hands on something else. Doesn't mean it's something better, just something else, just another toy to play with and then realize it's all the same thing and they only look different with a few different slots.
That's just one issue. In my point of view, the main problem is that the two other main activities that can be done alone or in group are really pointless. They're basically questing or ganking. Grinding your contacts was annoying to say the least (just like most quest grinding in any mmo, to be fair) and ganking, well, you usually picked your targets so well it was either sad or annoying. So you basically got annoyed or annoyed others for fun.
I used to be in a corp and we had some amazing fights, which were the highlights of EVE. But then I could hop to warhammer or TF2 and have the very same intensity of fights without waiting much for something different, or in the case of TF2, without paying monthly for what can be basically described as waiting.
I can understand the appeal of the space genre and I do wish for a nice space game. But it's just not for me. I will wait for Infinity and hope that one wont turn out to be boring to me.
Sorry, I ended ranting about eve again. As you can probably tell, I really wanted to like it.