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General Discussion / Re: AmeriPol: cabinet reshuffle shuffle shuffle
« on: March 29, 2018, 02:01:47 am »
It is out of date (it was originally written in 1868), and subsequent junk has patched up that sort of stuff. Mostly, at the absolute least.

That said, fixed, yes, ignored, no. Pretty sure the 14th was a fairly notable step up from the situation at the time. Most folks I've noticed suggesting abolishing or ignoring it are pretty incredibly shitty people.
Pretty much.  I pointed out that the precise part that was complained about was fixed a mere...oh, 94 years ago, now.  Heck, it was even conveniently on the very next line trimmed from the quote in the complaint. ^_^

Indeed, since it was my post that apparently triggered this outburst, I can probably go into a bit of detail.  Because it *has* already been fixed, abolishing or replacing the 14th amendment typically boils down to shutting down representation based on population, with the most common replacement to my knowledge being to replace it with representation based on citizenship instead.  The reason Native Americans were so contentious, or perhaps more accurately the fig-leaf for this particular facet of the citizenship argument of that day (it's an old argument), was because Native Americans weren't "just" US citizens, even if they renounced their tribes (according to federal courts in McKay v. Campbell and, nationally, Elk v. Wilkins); they're citizens of their tribes, semi-sovereign entities or "domestic dependent nations" that enter into treaty compacts with the United States government.  The contradictions herein in the US simultaneously treating with native tribes as both sovereign states and non-sovereign territories subject to American rule based on which was more convenient were rather elided over because of the views of the day, and extending the rights of citizenship took until 1924 legally, with the provisions not fully enforced until the courts came down hard in 1948.  However, they did, and they did so without the rigorous requirements of a constitutional amendment.  That's obviously not to say that native tribes live a charmed life today, but the problems therein don't have much to do with the 14th Amendment. 

For sure. A surprising amount of the legal foundation for relations between the United States and Native groups is composed of treaties signed
a good deal more than 100 years ago.
And a SCOTUS decision that the massive asshole Andrew Jackson promptly ignored...

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It be my birthday today!

Online friendo came up for the weekend. Today, he, Emily, and I went to the Des Moines Art Center, saw some amazing art, and crawled around in this tape thingy, it was cool. In a bit another friend is coming down and we're gonna get some food and hang out.

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General Discussion / Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« on: September 26, 2017, 08:59:16 pm »
I can't just know that I have issues, that doesn't imply me doing anything about them. Just acknowledging my flaws and ignoring them. That's my real flaw. Ironically, that especially applies to itself.

At this point I just want things with her to end on a somewhat positive note. I don't know how though. Anything I say just seems to make things worse and worse.

I'm still here for another 2 weeks. My birthday is this Saturday. What can I possibly do to make sure that we can at least have some fun? I want to stay friends with her. She wants to give me the $280 to cover my psychiatrist and meds. I want to at least have a happy birthday before I leave for Philly and am alone again.



I've known I've had problems for years, that doesn't mean I've done anything about it.

I'm not asking much of myself. Just go out and talk to people in a group, and actually go there more than a few times. Have a regular sleep schedule, even if it's waking up as late as 11 AM, that's better than waking up at 3 PM. Get to therapy on time once a week. Go out grocery shopping with my food stamps instead of getting delivery which I can't afford. Cook. Do the dishes. Shower more than once every week or two. Do the laundry. Just eat something instead of staring at my laptop screen for an entire day.

I've only asked myself the bare minimum that a 22 year old should be able to handle. A couple of them I'm not a complete failure at. But most of that... If I can't do that, where does that leave me?

try those meetup.com things, there are boardgame nights and the like. They're a good way to get into a group thing, because there's always going to be some group or other who has a spare seat at their game, and even though you feel nervous asking, i 100% guarantee that if you ask to join a game that's below capacity, they're going to welcome you in.

meetup.com is also great if you either don't know anyone in a city or you have social issues, because it's a whole social networking / organized thing focused around actually hanging out with people, so you can use it as a predictable way of having people to hang out with, without needing to put in so much effort and planning yourself.
I've tried those in the past. I get a lot of social anxiety. And if I don't make any connections, I just give up after a few meetups. I need to stop giving up so easily.

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General Discussion / Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« on: September 26, 2017, 08:03:39 pm »
I've known I've had problems for years, that doesn't mean I've done anything about it.

I'm not asking much of myself. Just go out and talk to people in a group, and actually go there more than a few times. Have a regular sleep schedule, even if it's waking up as late as 11 AM, that's better than waking up at 3 PM. Get to therapy on time once a week. Go out grocery shopping with my food stamps instead of getting delivery which I can't afford. Cook. Do the dishes. Shower more than once every week or two. Do the laundry. Just eat something instead of staring at my laptop screen for an entire day.

I've only asked myself the bare minimum that a 22 year old should be able to handle. A couple of them I'm not a complete failure at. But most of that... If I can't do that, where does that leave me?

I mean, TBH, unless you have some kind of debilitating physical disorder (if you do, no offense) these are things you *can* certainly do.

I don't mean to play pocket shrink, but I have found that if there's something I don't want to do, I have often fallen into the trap of telling myself that I am incapable of doing it, and that is really easy to believe. I found that once I started doing the thing in question I realized what I had been doing.

Don't think about whether this is true of you or not, because you'll always come back with NO, I would NEVER. Come at as "If this is true, hypothetically, how would I act" or "how would I justify this to my girlfriend or myself".

If the dots connect, you have a clear path of mental advancement that you can't escape. Trite, perhaps, but from my own experiences.

I have bipolar disorder, anxiety, and ADHD... I think. I'm not even sure what's wrong with me at this point. Nothing physical, though.

What really ends up happening is that I so desperately want to be okay that I end up lying to myself and others about how well I'm doing. Like a few months ago, my insurance got fucked so I couldn't go see my psychiatrist (unless I came up with like $200, anyway) and then later on my meds jumped from $20/month to $80. I can't afford that, so I stopped taking them.

I never asked for help with that. I wanted to prove to myself I could do it. I didn't want her to worry about me. But I couldn't get better on my own, and now because I never actually got help, that's all gone.

I talked to my therapist about random stuff, pretending like things were okay. I mean, I did feel okay, at least a little. So that meant my life would be okay, right? Just a matter of time after starting to feel okay that I'd actually start doing things. Of course that's a load of bullshit, and "feeling okay" doesn't just involve "I got out of bed this morning" and similar, incredibly minor things. I had to put in some actual fucking effort into doing something, but I never did.

I self-sabotage a lot.

Can I turn this around? God, I hope so.

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General Discussion / Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« on: September 26, 2017, 03:49:16 pm »
I've known I've had problems for years, that doesn't mean I've done anything about it.

I'm not asking much of myself. Just go out and talk to people in a group, and actually go there more than a few times. Have a regular sleep schedule, even if it's waking up as late as 11 AM, that's better than waking up at 3 PM. Get to therapy on time once a week. Go out grocery shopping with my food stamps instead of getting delivery which I can't afford. Cook. Do the dishes. Shower more than once every week or two. Do the laundry. Just eat something instead of staring at my laptop screen for an entire day.

I've only asked myself the bare minimum that a 22 year old should be able to handle. A couple of them I'm not a complete failure at. But most of that... If I can't do that, where does that leave me?

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General Discussion / Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« on: September 26, 2017, 02:05:37 pm »
@CrownofFire
Sorry to hear about that. That's not necessarily a lack of maturity, grown adults can be legit terrified of change or progress and that is ok. Is she talking about hobbies, education, what? Maybe we can give advice!!! Have you ever tried music, or maybe art? What about a short class at your community college? Those can run as cheap as 200-400$, depending on what you are taking. Enough to be an obstacle but not insurmountable given time.
It's not being terrified of change or progress so much as just not putting in any effort. I don't know. She wants me to be independent, stand on my own two feet. I never relied on her financially, but she was tired of talking back and forth with me on how I never did anything. I said I wanted to be more social, but I never really tried to do it. If I did try going to some group, I'd give up after a while of not making any connections. She tried to help, but I still never did anything.

Every time she tried to help me, I shot her down.

And it's basically just... everything. I don't have any interest in making music or art. I don't have any money for anything either. I can't even go back to school unless I can come up with about $800, because I owe my previous school that and I can't get my transcript from them, which means no going to school, and no student aid or loans until after I do that.

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General Discussion / Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« on: September 26, 2017, 12:55:39 pm »
It's over.
What is?
My relationship.

She wants me to be independent. But I'm going in circles, constantly stuck in inaction. I never do anything to get better, improve myself, do things, or anything.

Yet another thing ruined by my own lack of... maturity. And this time it's not something I can get back.

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General Discussion / Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« on: September 26, 2017, 10:59:52 am »
It's over.

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General Discussion / Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« on: June 19, 2017, 09:57:03 pm »
My sister posted this on Facebook.


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With a heavy heart I hate to tell you guys that earlier today my family came to the decision to put down Luke due to kidney failure 💔 Luke was a beautiful, kind, cuddly and mellow cat. He loved to sleep in the bathroom sink and on your lap. He would like to lay with me for hours on my bed and purred loud whenever I pet him. 12 years of a wonderful cat and I couldn't be more thankful. Rest In Peace Luke and may there be all the catnip for you in kitty heaven 🐱

She also sent me the last photo she got of him while he was still alive.

I haven't seen him in two years :'(

RIP Luke

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I've found that LGBT and other groups tend to just... congregate. Even when we have no idea of who each other are.

It's as if we're all sleeper agents for the Gay Agenda. We know where to go, but we don't know who we are, nor do we know who the others are. It takes time for us to figure ourselves out, and even longer to figure out who the others are as well.

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My last name roughly means "fire", though that'll be ruined when I eventually marry my girlfriend (we're planning to smoosh them together :3). One possible meaning of my middle name can be roughly shoehorned into meaning "crown". And the E is just because I wanted something more unique than "CrownofFire" (which I actually used to go by on these very forums), just a random letter really (zero relation to the internet "e" prefix).

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Well first night in my new apartment has passed and I am now awake and laying on the couch of my own place.

Last night I had some stromboli delivered (which is really more like a calzone), and it was pretty good (also had some of it for breakfast). Though right now the leftovers of that is the only food I have here since I just moved in yesterday... So I need to go grocery shopping later today. 15-20 minute walk down there and back, bah.

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You mean we're going to dress like mormons and use it as an excuse to knock down ecrownoffire's door with swords?

Yes.
Now there's a good reason for me to get a sword!

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Sitting around in my new apartment waiting for furniture to be delivered. Kind of boring, but it's not a bad place at all. Neighborhood is a tiny bit iffy, like right on the border between a good neighborhood and an "ehhh" one (going by crime stats).

https://imgur.com/a/TSOrg



Also I'm kind of disappointed that if I were to ever get a doctoral degree that I won't get a sword or ring or anything cool like that.

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The best dragon is an delicious dragon.
I'm not sure whether to tell you to not eat me or to respond with a sexual innuendo.

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