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[UristMcHuman]

Please explain why you can't distance yourself from the girl?

I don't want to, and truthfully can't, right now.

I can completely understand why you don't want to.  What's making it so that you can't?  Besides the fact that you don't want to...

One word: School-work.

[UristMcHuman]

Don't message her on facebook about it or anything

I'm actually trying to message her on Facebook so I can tell her I want to talk to her in person.

EDIT: Sorry for the double post.

[Putnam]

Don't message her on facebook about it or anything

I'm actually trying to message her on Facebook so I can tell her I want to talk to her in person.

EDIT: Sorry for the double post.

That may work, but considering your situation, you may chicken out, especially since you seem to be chickening out on just Facebook messaging her. Try to be spontaneous about it.

EDIT: Ah--UristMcHuman has been muted for a week now. I don't quite like the way this post was worded and now he can't reply >_> whoops

[Loud Whispers]

Oy, I don't know why I'm posting this to total strangers...

Anonymity? I don't know >_>

OK, there's an irresistably unresistable extremely beautiful girl at my school that I'm deeply in love with. I can't get my mind off of her. Each day, at lunch (same lunch unit), I look at her when I can. She sits two tables away from me, so I can't just get up, walk to her table and talk to her. I definitely can't talk to her. Everything I want to say sinks back down at "Umm..." and she walks by. Every day, I think about that girl, while I work, while I eat, and, yes, even while I play DF and other games. Every night, I have trouble getting to sleep because I'm thinking of her. I dream about the girl, about me and her together, walking down the streets hand-in-hand, going out to movies, laying under the stars with her head on my chest, listening to my heartbeat. I dream about the day she and I first kiss. This is unbearable, and I just want it to stop, but it's so hard. I want help as to how to get her to be my girlfriend.

Does anybody have anything that would help???

1. Fix your Freud
2. Talk to her

_{I'm only in 7th grade, so PLEASE don't pick on me. It only makes things much harder, and drives my self-esteem down faster.}

Why is your self esteem down?

[Heron TSG]

You sound a little preoccupied. Think about this person, and who they actually are. Not who you want them to be. Then go talk to her already.

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[Putnam]

You sound a little preoccupied. Think about this person, and who they actually are. Not who you want them to be. Then go talk to her already.

yes yes yes this I had this problem so much

[Heron TSG]

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[K41N]

You sound a little preoccupied. Think about this person, and who they actually are. Not who you want them to be. Then go talk to her already.

yes yes yes this I had this problem so much

This. You should definitely talk to her. I had a similar situation and didn't talk to the girl and i consider it one of the few mistakes i've made in my life.
By the way, it will never be easier to get to know a girl than in school. Trust me.

[Trapezohedron]

It's either you attempt to strike a conversation with her, in whatever way that works best, or you distance away from her.

I think this is Puppy Love, so if you distance yourself/refocus your thoughts for a while, you'll start to feel less attracted to her*.

But if you decide to go after her, you might want to do a bit of reconnaissance (NO, I didn't mean stalking her), and know who her friends are. If one of her friends is your friend, you'll probably have a lesser amount of difficulty trying to chat with her, if you, her, and your friend hang out together.

*might be marginal, or a huge drop in affection and fondness.

[dragginmaster]

lots of good advice in these replies, which is pretty why Human Nature means the poor kid is just gonna do whatever it is he want anyway, which probably means pining away.

UristMcHuhman, If you ever want her to even just be your friend you need to talk to her, if you can't talk to her then movies and hand holding will be impossible.

That being said, there is always a chance of rejection, and it sucks. keep that in mind. You would be best to try and think of something else for awhile, read some nice long books or something. then when your brains are not scrambled in with your raging hormones so bad, talk to her.

[Vector]

He was perma-banned.  Time to give up.

[dragginmaster]

Last i read it was temp ban *shrugs*

[Vector]

Last i read it was temp ban *shrugs*

Go read again.

[ChairmanPoo]

It just changed. I assume it was related to his status, and possible PMs.

[Putnam]

I just checked, and Toady's post says it's a one-week mute. Where are you guys getting this permaban thing?