Right, so I know I was responded to somewhere back 3 pages or so, but I don't want to be arguing two entirely separate things at the same time so unless you really want to keep it going (in which case you can repost it), I'm going to move on.
The scandinavian countries have a very high proportion of government spending, but also a very high proportion of government employees, and things like true public corporations. To me, that's more true state socialism than just throwing money at the private sector (i.e. America's food stamps).
One problem with expanding the definition of socialist too much, is that it might start to encompass things you don't want in your definition:
e.g. is the army "socialist"? It's government owned, government employees, they provide wages, education and health care to army personnel etc
The Scandanavian countries can be called "socialist" straight up (and since this is a nomenclature debate, I'm not even going to get into all the associated problems there), but the US is "socialist" in its own way. It leans more towards "fascist" or "corporatist" though, in which the state, the corporations, and the unions all kind of play off each other for control where needed in certain sectors. Hence, the US has a lot of huge, influential corporations like GM, Goldman Sachs, and GE, which in turn generally have large, powerful unions representing their workers, and all of them are both heavily tied to and influenced by the US government. In a lot of ways they exist outside the market economy because of how closely tied they are to the government so far as contracts, regulations, etc go. It isn't outright socialism as in Europe, but it's certainly a type of socialism and definitely isn't capitalistic.