I have an answer for the bias part, in that I've performed tests where the factors involved that would decrease the chances of me getting an advantage (like being nervous before a test) have been amplified in the times that I do pray.
Not good enough. You cannot be involved. Bias will always leak through even if you are actively planning against it, so you have to be separate from participation in the experiment.
I can also say that I have observed many people who seem to legitimately benefit from prayer.
The only reason I have faith at all is because I've made too many observations that point toward some kind of higher power offering blessings to those who dare to ask.
Just like that lady with terminal breast cancer who was miraculously cured by god at a healing.
Alright, so it was more of non-terminal breast cancer.
Well, it wasn't actually diagnosed by a doctor, but she knew it was cancer.
I'm just saying, it was a very strange looking lump that went away after she prayed, and you can't
prove that it wasn't cancer and that God didn't heal her because he totally exists.
You cannot trust your personal anecdotes as evidence.
I wish I could see more about that study you're showing me. If prayer does nothing, people shouldn't be having worse incidents from it.
The outlier was the group that knew they were being prayed for, so that's what must be looked at. The actual act of prayer disconnected from the subject seems to do nothing, as the groups that weren't being prayed for and being secretly prayed for got effectively the same amount of complications. From that we can deduce that the
knowledge that people are praying for your recovery was the cause of the outlier, as this was the only difference between the two groups being prayed for. Cardiac bypass (the surgery of those involved in the prayer study) is obviously a very serious event, and even slight things can have major consequences. The most likely explanation is that the complications are developing from stress. Knowing that people are expecting you to make a supernatural recovery handed down by God Himself is a massive performance to lead up to. So much so that your heart rate might go up, testing your newly bypassed artery to its limit...
...anyway, um, wasn't this thread about sex before marriage or something? Getting back to that topic somewhat, the church I'm at teaches abstinence because it's an outreach program that tries to get into the kinds of areas with teen pregnancy issues and STI problems. When it comes to areas like that, saying to wait a while is pretty good advice.
Good advice in theory, not in practice. You can't expect people to wait because they aren't going to listen to you. Teenagers live in a haze of sex hormones and social anxiety that makes any chance of intimacy with another human being a very attractive proposition. Some may not pursue that, but most will and won't listen to a word you say if you try to stop them. To them, people who preach abstinence only are just a bunch of asshole adults (or fellow asshole teenagers, they won't make a distinction) who "
Don't know what I'm going through, man!". Simply put, you cannot stop them and by trying you are making your position invalid to them. By advocating safe sex you are allowing them to fulfill their urges, and the only small limits you are trying to get them to practice are there for very good, completely obvious reasons. Through that, you come off as legitimately caring about their well being instead of just trying to keep them down, and as such they will listen to you far more often.