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[Vector]

He could admit himself to a psychiatric hospital I believe. I'm not sure how the process of that works though.

I believe it's pretty similar, though I'd worry about him getting drugged up.  I hear that's rather unpleasant.

[Neonivek]

He could admit himself to a psychiatric hospital I believe. I'm not sure how the process of that works though.

I believe it's pretty similar, though I'd worry about him getting drugged up.  I hear that's rather unpleasant.

If he is getting drugged up then he is a lot worse then he is letting on.

[x2yzh9]

Audioworm, I'm sending you a PM. I'm not going to judge you or anything, I've been there, maybe not to the point of beating family members but I've sure as hell felt like it and I can relate. I've been to the hospital twice, which if you are curious I will explain to you. All I want to do is help, man.

[Stargrasper]

Audioworm, I'm sending you a PM. I'm not going to judge you or anything, I've been there, maybe not to the point of beating family members but I've sure as hell felt like it and I can relate. I've been to the hospital twice, which if you are curious I will explain to you. All I want to do is help, man.

And the point of saying that publicly...?

There's nothing wrong with seeking council from others.  You just need to decide who to ask for help.  Tip: The internet is probably not the best avenue.  Seek a professional.  Or at least someone more likely to have actual wisdom and experience under them.

[x2yzh9]

Audioworm, I'm sending you a PM. I'm not going to judge you or anything, I've been there, maybe not to the point of beating family members but I've sure as hell felt like it and I can relate. I've been to the hospital twice, which if you are curious I will explain to you. All I want to do is help, man.

And the point of saying that publicly...?

There's nothing wrong with seeking council from others.  You just need to decide who to ask for help.  Tip: The internet is probably not the best avenue.  Seek a professional.  Or at least someone more likely to have actual wisdom and experience under them.

The point being that this is a fairly open community, this is Life Advice, the fact that everyone knows due to a stunt I pulled about half a year ago, and he may just not be checking his PMs at this point.

[Grakelin]

This is one of two things:

1) A Troll. Bravo.

2) A violent kid who can't control his emotions and tossed his family member around the room because somebody on the internet set him off.

Either way, my suggestion to you, OP, is to go find somewhere else to be. By which I mean, don't come wandering in here looking for support. You don't need support. You're already unworthy of it.

[lordcooper]

I'm not flaming you or anything, and those that have been doing so in this thread are likely doing more harm than good, but please seek psychiatric help ASAP.  Seriously, you need it.

[Stargrasper]

He could admit himself to a psychiatric hospital I believe. I'm not sure how the process of that works though.

I believe it's pretty similar, though I'd worry about him getting drugged up.  I hear that's rather unpleasant.

sorry, but as soon as I read these two sentences, i thought of the simpsons where Ned Flanders goes insane and drives through the mental hospital's gates...

anyway, you could try to do what I was told when i used to feel almost permanantly unhappy, think of three god things that happened during the day. it worked wonders for me (and I was somewhat skeptical about it too...)

I agree entirely.  Note that I actually quoted the Bible earlier in the thread.  I'm also really do suggest seeing a local pastor or something.  You don't have to believe in God for that to help you.  It helps me immensely.  Of course, nobody can force God on you.

[Vector]

I was told to do the same thing, actually.

[chaoticag]

If I can suggest one thing, and one thing that hasn't been suggested yet, try and make amends with your mother.


Other than that, seek help and all that, but it also might be a good idea to step back from the computer a bit and relax. It seems like a source of great frustration and getting away might knock things into perspective.

[Jelle]

Aw man that's terrible, I'm not even sure if you're being serious here or not.

I mean you are either one hardcore troll or you've really just made a bad situation in your life a whole lot worse, judging by your last topic.
In fact, I'm having a hard time believing you could have done such a thing and sit behind your computer and type it afterwards. I would think anyone who had such an outburst would seek help on that matter at once, ifyou at least don't hate your mother, and especially since you asked for advice on any help with your problem not to long ago.

Fair enough I think most can fall victim to an outburst of agression, I've had plenty of occasions where I felt the urge to just jam a knife in someones guts for mistreating fellow human beings, but at least I am rational enough to realize such a thought is completely blown out of proportions most of the times and I would never think of harming someone innocent.

So I just need to say, and I probably shouldn't as I'm judging and the least you need right now is judgement, but I can't help myself when I say I find you are extremely selfish. Stating that you are sick of life and want to take yours but making those arround suffer as you squander your life and pull others down with you in your misery, I'm sorry but I find that many times worse then the worst I can imagine bullies and assholes did to you to give you this outlook.

That said, find help. No matter what it is if you're going to remain as you are and your agression becomes worse then you need to be helped.
At this point I think that either ending it or getting your problem solved is a better solution then staying as you are and eventually becoming a danger to everyone around you.
And I already said how stupid it would be to end it, so that leaves one sensible solution.

And if you come to your senses, apolagize to your mother.

[Mushroo]

Turn off the ******* computer and deal with your real problems in the real world.

We are fans of a kitten-butchering, sock-hoarding dwarf simulation. We are not your role models, we are not your therapist, we are not your friends. We are insane plump-helmet-eating, sewer-brew-swilling strangers on the internet.

We cannot help you. Sorry.

[Hitty40]

Turn off the ******* computer and deal with your real problems in the real world.

We are fans of a kitten-butchering, sock-hoarding dwarf simulation. We are not your role models, we are not your therapist, we are not your friends. We are insane plump-helmet-eating, sewer-brew-swilling strangers on the internet.

We cannot help you. Sorry.

First off, quit trolling. If if this was the DF descussion board, your middle sentence is fine, but this is Life Advice.

second off, saying we can't help him is possibly the most idiotic thing to say in Life Advise. We are a community of forum users, and we want to help each other out, not say 'Oh sorry, you commited a crime for being angry now, we can't help you'.

[Mushroo]

Turn off the ******* computer and deal with your real problems in the real world.

We are fans of a kitten-butchering, sock-hoarding dwarf simulation. We are not your role models, we are not your therapist, we are not your friends. We are insane plump-helmet-eating, sewer-brew-swilling strangers on the internet.

We cannot help you. Sorry.

First off, quit trolling. If if this was the DF descussion board, your middle sentence is fine, but this is Life Advice.

second off, saying we can't help him is possibly the most idiotic thing to say in Life Advise. We are a community of forum users, and we want to help each other out, not say 'Oh sorry, you commited a crime for being angry now, we can't help you'.

What are your qualifications and experience as a suicide-prevention and domestic abuse counselor? I have none. Zero. Zilch. If anything is "idiotic" it's attempting to diagnose life-and-death issues with a stranger on the internet when you have no qualifications to do so.

To Audioworm: Please get help from a REAL person in the REAL WORLD who is QUALIFIED to help you. You are NOT alone, you are not the only person who has felt this way, there is HOPE! I cannot stress this enough. I support you but there is nothing I can do to help you, good luck!

[Hitty40]

Turn off the ******* computer and deal with your real problems in the real world.

We are fans of a kitten-butchering, sock-hoarding dwarf simulation. We are not your role models, we are not your therapist, we are not your friends. We are insane plump-helmet-eating, sewer-brew-swilling strangers on the internet.

We cannot help you. Sorry.

First off, quit trolling. If if this was the DF descussion board, your middle sentence is fine, but this is Life Advice.

second off, saying we can't help him is possibly the most idiotic thing to say in Life Advise. We are a community of forum users, and we want to help each other out, not say 'Oh sorry, you commited a crime for being angry now, we can't help you'.

What are your qualifications and experience as a suicide-prevention and domestic abuse counselor?

My sister has attempted to kill herself 4 times. A friend's friend was getting beat up by her boyfriend(Although I'm not too sure if this counts as domestic abuse or not). I stopped my sister from doing so, my friend brought his friend over to help them out. It may not be much, but it has given a little experience. Even today, I sometimes still read books on suicide prevention and whatnot.

To Audioworm: Please get help from a REAL person in the REAL WORLD who is QUALIFIED to help you. You are NOT alone, you are not the only person who has felt this way, there is HOPE! I cannot stress this enough. I support you but there is nothing I can do to help you, good luck!

you may not, but the rest of the B12 forums can.