This is what I did last time, and I'm really happy with it:
Miner 5 Dodger 5 -- goodbye Ingish, I still think of you at times, sad way to go
Appraiser 1 Weaponsmith 4 Diagnoser 5 (this probably isn't right, but can't quite remember) -- Duchess, I'd never have thunk it, but it appears that you will eventually die of old age
Armorsmith 5 Dodger 5 -- Erush you have made all of my wealth, and forged every block that built my towers (now armorer 20+, smith 20+, furnace 20+)
Weaponsmith 5 Cook 5 (bet she didn't really have weapon 5, but can't remember) -- Aban, I'm so sorry I forgot to give you water when you got wounded
Teacher 5 Shield 4 Weaponsmith 1 -- Oddom, you kick ass (she's teacher 18 now, fighter 84 if you trust runesmith, close to 250 kills)
Teacher 5 Armor 4 Weaponsmith 1 -- Shorast, sorry that Oddom keeps eclipsing you, you never really had a chance to shine
Teacher 5 Dodge 4 Weaponsmith 1 -- Uzol, thanks to your mood, all of my dwarves use masterpiece axes
All about military instructors and mood management, with dodger just in case of early nastiness, because there are more than enough points anyways. if there was a shortage, probably the first thing to go would be miner 5.
Brought about 120 drink, 30 plump helmet (for booze only please), maybe 15 silk thread, 20 wood, 7 geese, maybe 20 milk, 1 copper axe, 1 iron anvil, and then, I don't know, probably some bronze bars or something.